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Originally Posted by tASSy
hey hey donny! i don't mind the bump at all, i think this was already up there. 
yano what's funny? we do the very same thing, though we usually use Y! messenger, hah! i'm a ridiculously fast typist, and i also find that i am much better at writing out my feelings/thoughts/etc. than i am verbalising them - *especially* were there any sort of vulnerable emotions involved.
in any case - i've already stated my official position, but i would like to say that the more and more this keeps coming up (i.e. the comment from chadglni) the more it touches a nerve for me. yes, it is hard having a relationship in the public eye. yes, it's hard when people are constantly trying to knock you down simply because you appear happy. yes, i am being honest. yes, this is real.
i still love you all!  |
I like to express everything face to face personally... but most of the time, before adressing an important point, I'l just write a letter to the person (that she'll never get) adressing every point of everyting that annoys me right now, and I'l take the points related to the problem I wanna talk about and adress the problem.
That way I don't get stucked up into a lot of useless everyday life annoyances that just get in the way, but adress the real things with more sense then if I just let my feelings speak.