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Old 04-04-2006, 09:04 PM  
tASSy
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Originally Posted by Donny
Do you folks know how to read?

Relationship struggle and strife happens to everyone. The two of them may be going through a tough time, but I'm sure it's temporary. You simply cannot stop the power of pink.

Tassy, I'm sorry to bump this thread again but I've kept quiet all day about this. Guys, just talk to each other. Hold nothing back. Expose your feelings without worrying if they'll be hurt. You love each other.

This business is tough. Any job that requires a lot of travel and time with others is a job that can wear on a couple. But you CAN get through tough times. I know you already know that.

You know what really works for Belinda and me? Of all things, it's ICQ. Yep, that sounds really fucking funny and a bit odd, but think about it: typing out your message makes it less likely that you'll say something you wish you could take back. It makes you think before you "speak". Sometimes we sit in the same room and chat about issues we need to address. Of course, we both type pretty fast, which helps. But for some reason we can really... COMMUNICATE this way. Try it if other forms of communication aren't being as effective as you'd like.

Good luck guys. Hopefully the rough spot will be quickly smoothed, if it hasn't already been.
hey hey donny! i don't mind the bump at all, i think this was already up there.

yano what's funny? we do the very same thing, though we usually use Y! messenger, hah! i'm a ridiculously fast typist, and i also find that i am much better at writing out my feelings/thoughts/etc. than i am verbalising them - *especially* were there any sort of vulnerable emotions involved.

in any case - i've already stated my official position, but i would like to say that the more and more this keeps coming up (i.e. the comment from chadglni) the more it touches a nerve for me. yes, it is hard having a relationship in the public eye. yes, it's hard when people are constantly trying to knock you down simply because you appear happy. yes, i am being honest. yes, this is real.

i still love you all!
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