Im not saying lets stop trying to search for the answers - but to be honest not one person here (and that includes me) really has a clue about space and time and the cosmos.
Given that no stupid fucked up man on this planet with the biggest egghead of all time hasn't got the "absolute finite" answer - I doubt us porn peddlers have it.
Weve all seen close ones DIE - let them rest - we will be with them soon enough.
(sometimes I think they are lucky bastards cos they beat me to it).
