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Originally Posted by Raven
Between the ages of 28 and 32, you begin to develop into who you are, rather than what was expected from you by influential people.
Lack of trust is a stepping stone, so look back to see where it started.
Relationships with women..well, look at your parents and see how they treated each other....
As to women seeing you as weak if you're kind, you may well be dating the wrong women..just as women sometimes date the 'bad' boys rather than those who treat them well, until they get hurt one time too many.
Trust issues make for poor relationships.....and it's too bad, because just as not all men are bad, not all women are sneaky...
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Actually we become who we are much earlier in life. 2-4 years old. Sure we have some ability to modify behavior, but the foundation is formed during those years.
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Women who sleep with a lot of men, tend to be missing a father figure in their lives, and are also open to a lot of abuse.
She picks and chooses how she interacts with you based on the qualities she liked in her father. So skillz, you want to understand you companion... get to know her father.