when i was 16, i dated a guy who thought i wasnt a virgin, but as SOON as he found out that i WAS, he said "ahhhhhhhh...i cant...im FLATTERED but i ...i...just cant...one day, you'll understand why and laugh about this but trust me, i WANT to, but i just...i just cant..." he kept saying that over and over again lol we had fucked around before (finger fucked me and such) so i thought he'd say yes.
kinda worked out though...cuz 3 months later, i met a dude that i fell in love with and we dated for several months and lost our virginity to each other & remained best friends for several YEARS afterwards.
