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Originally Posted by Raven
I don't speak for all women here, but from my perspective, we don't want our men all gentle and nice all the time.....not that I advocate the extreme....gentle and nice all the time sounds boring to me....and not doable....no one is that well mannered or perfect.
I get the feeling, though, there is something else going on here......
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I have to totally agree with Raven, she is very wise and though I may be a little older than you, it seems that you really need to talk to your G/F, I have the most amazing relationship with my husband, but then again we trust each other completely, we talk about everything so there is no reason to be sneaky, we tell each other as soon as we are not well so we don't take the attitude the wrong way....but if she is as great as you say she is then I would do what you can to make it work, nothing sucks more than to realize what you have when it is gone and what sucks even more is starting all over again!!!!