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Originally Posted by Thomas1007
at 28 years old, you should know how to communicate with your woman. If you dont trust her, then its you that has the issue. Trust and communication are the Key to any good relationship.
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Yea we communicate fine. It's more me with the insecurities. It has a lot to do with being cheated on in high school which i can understand because at that age women dont know what they really want in a man. It also comes from dealing with a married woman in my younger days. I have a lot of women friends and before i decided to have a steady girlfriend i use to hear the stories about how they sneak around on guys and what not. So those things are where my trust issues stem from. Not to mention as we've been together and she's telling me more about herself, i am learning that she cheated on like 2 out of 3 serious relationships. She says she didn't really like them she was just with them for whatever reason and that she actually likes me so it's different. She was also honest about something else in the beggining of our relationship which makes me believe her when she tells me these things. She is always totally honest with me so i really dont think she would do me dirty, but i have to make myself believe that deep down inside and not just in my brain.
I just need to work on trust within myself