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Some women (not all) never seem to get that you can't force things like deeper feelings, love and commitment. There is no hurrying things along, they have to take their natural course.
However, it's not just women asking this of men. Plenty of guys out there have asked these same kinds of questions of women, and the woman has felt pressured as well.
I've had one or two women start asking "where do you see things going with us" after only one or two dates believe it or not. Talk about pressure.
It's more understandable after seeing someone for a few months that they might want to ask, but there has to be a way to find the answers to those questions without putting pressure on the other person or putting them on the spot.
And in looking at the ridiculous divorce rate out there right now I would say that there is a LOT to be said for just relaxing and taking things slow and being happy, and just getting to know someone and let things take their course.
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