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Originally Posted by Spunky
Have to screw up a good relationship by asking..Where is this going?,what do you see happening in a year or two? I mean can't they just be happy taking things slow and seeing what progresses if anything ? Seems like every relationship I have it always winds up with that question being asked within the first few months..I always get uncomfortable and eventually end it because they keep nagging at me if I don't answer because I don't know what will happen.  |
Funny this is brought up. My girlfriend and I just broke up over this same issue. Got the same "don't want to waste time" answer. So I said "oh so I'm a waste of your time?" Then got a "no I didn't mean it like that" I mean if you say you love someone then turn around basically called them a waste of your time well I have issue with that. Why not enjoy the now and leave the future shit to the future. Seems like women see a relationship as a destination to be reached than journey to be experienced.