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The only guaranteed unpregnant woman is one who does not engage in sex or the acquisition of sperm.
The only guarantee for men is to keep their dicks out of a girl's pussy, with or without protection.
Otherwise, both are responsible. If they mutually decide on a 'no fault' contract, then have mediators draw up papers from the start, beginning with dna testing to ensure the father is truly the father.
I agree with rochard. Joint custody. They must live in the same school district and visitation and responsibility is split. Each parent supports the child when the child is living with said parent. If there is a large gap in salaries, the one who makes more, provides more.
If the girl doesn't want the baby, it's still her right to abort. If he wants it, then mediation again, is warranted, as the stress on her body is enormous...
This is situational ethics at its best and worst; and, those involved need competent, and I DO stress competent and unbiased intervention....good luck finding that within our system in this country, though.
Men and women make babies. Somehow, some way, they are in this together, no matter how inconvenient or immature they are.
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Raven
~RETIRED~
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