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Originally Posted by ready lube
Men should have a say in 'unwanted' pregnancy!
they do and goes something like this right before the sex,
"aww come baby just this once, it's not gonna matter, I'll pull out I swear".
You make a baby you need to take care of it. There is no grey arae on this one.
Although I guess I should read the link you posted anyway huh  |
yeah, or the girl could say... wait let me grab some spermicide.. put a sponge in... or maybe take the pill
or keep her legs closed
50/50 on a baby
the whole point of this issue is that if the child was unplanned, BOTH parties are responsible... if "unplanned" is proven and agreed upon by both parties then neither should be held financially responsible to the other... the woman has the choice to keep it or abort it or give it up for adoption
but if its unplanned and AGREED that it was unplanned and the father would like her not to keep it or to give it up because he isnt ready for a child... he shouldn't be held responsible... they both made the mistake
i dont understand how the father is the one blamed most of the time... thats bullshit if anything it is at LEAST 50/50
the "make a baby and take care of it" rule is bullshit, think about the quality of life for the child. not everyone in every community is capable of raising children