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Originally Posted by chadglni
YA NO I HAVE A QUESTION!!!!!how come when two girls makeout it's fine it's ''Hott'' but when it's two guys it's ''gross''hmmm???hmmm yea well i'm standing up for wat i bealieve in FUCK GOREG W.BUSH I THINK BI'S AND GAY'S SHOULD BE ALOWED TO GET MARRIED :-)
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I'll make it as logical as I can. Hope this does not make me seem like a bigot, just my look at it.
Women retain more of the accepted role of society in a bi relationship. You have straight men, straight women and bi or gay women who all accept it and think it hot on various levels. Others either do not care one way or another or are disliking of it on a level of hatred based on whatever reason they choose to let it bother them that much.
A man in societial view pretty much across the board has a role, being gay is pretty much as far away from the expected and accepted role of "MAN" as you can get honestly. You have a man who mimicks the sexual role and likes of a woman, not gonna score high on the popularity rating. You can blame the "flamers" the worst for it with their loud, flamboyant nature which is anything but strong or manly to most. On top of that you have the stigma of it being an unclean lifestyle because of the high levels of promiscuity and anal sex as being seen as unsightly and dirty by most in society.
So to sum it up. Gay women who are not dykes are still views as women, they have not attempted to transcend any roles, they are seen as sexually still very much women. Compound that this is a male oriented world and you have popularity for women liking other women, especially if a guy can get involved and get a 2 for 1.
Gay men are looked at as weak because of flamers and their general female like sexual rolls. People tend not to like those who they see as being something they are not or should not be. Compound with this anal sex which is not at all as popular as vaginal even amongst heteros, compound the stigmas about diseases from promiscuity and anal sex, on TOP of the whole transcending roles thing. It is not like a dyke does not get as much shit as a flamer honestly, so that is why I think it has a lot to do with role transcendance and its effects on people's reaction.