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  • BVF
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    • Jan 2002
    • 13975

    #1

    My ex-wife wants to come back

    My ex-wife actually owned up to the fucked up shit that she did to me. Before she wouldn't even admit to the shit. She apologized for everything and she said that she will try to work on her attitude. We haven't been arguing for at least six months and the kids are doing good.

    The fact that I always sent money even though I'm not ordered child support plus the regular visits to see my children showed her that I'm not full of shit and I'll handle biz with my kids and that I love them to death.

    She's tired of getting up at 6 am every day and going to a job that she hates for mid-level pay and she's ready to come back to living with me where she doesn't have to work, will get a 500 a month allowance, and won't have to pay any of the bills in the house. Plus she'll get help from me to raise the children. She's been struggling by herself.

    I have the kids with me here for the holidays and soon I won't have to drive to Wisconsin once or twice a month plus send money for the kids. It will be cheaper to have them back here and my mother gets to see her grandchildren on the regular.

    She is willing to accept what I do in porn as long as the money (and her allowance) keeps coming in and she has learned to stop telling people that I'm a pornographer and now she says that I'm a Software Engineer.

    So this summer, my family should be reunited again. I'll be free to continue with what I love which is porn and I get to raise my children again full time....I'll be sending my oldest daughter to private school but it will be worth it.

    So can y'all please see sig and sign up and put my fhg's up on your tgp's today. My daughter's school will cost me 7k a year alone.

    Thanks for your time.

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  • Pornwolf
    Drunk and Unruly
    • Jan 2002
    • 22712

    #2
    Maan, Fuck that beeyyaaaatch!


    No, just kidding. It's always cool to see a family stay together.
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    • SuckOnThis
      So Fucking Banned
      • Oct 2003
      • 6844

      #3
      DUde, you should learn that women will say whatever is convenient at the time if there is something they want.

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      • BVF
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        • Jan 2002
        • 13975

        #4
        Originally posted by SuckOnThis
        DUde, you should learn that women will say whatever is convenient at the time if there is something they want.
        True...But I just invited her back. She's been acting good for the past six months and she had no idea that I would ever let her back. I'm the one that asked her back. It wasn't the other way around.

        Plus I am still divorced so she won't get any of my shit if she leaves and I still have a restraining order on her until 2008 so if she gets flip at the mouth while she's with me, I'll just show the police my restraining order and off to jail she goes.

        I think she'll be ok.

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        • Elli
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          • Apr 2003
          • 17991

          #5
          Did you just read what you wrote? She wants to come back because it's easier for her that way. *shakes head* I do hope you manage to work it out somehow that both of you can live with.
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          • Dirty F
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            • Jul 2001
            • 59204

            #6
            Here's the gfy band for ya!

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            • Spunky
              I need a beer
              • Jun 2002
              • 133978

              #7
              Say you'll think about it but you need a good rump fuck first
              Donkey punch her and throw her clothes at her and say I changed my mind

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              • BVF
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                • Jan 2002
                • 13975

                #8
                Originally posted by Elli
                Did you just read what you wrote? She wants to come back because it's easier for her that way. *shakes head* I do hope you manage to work it out somehow that both of you can live with.
                I don't care WHY she comes back as long as I can see my children. Once they're grown, she can do what she wants. It's no fun living in a three bedroom house all by yourself. I have all the hoes and sluts I want. I make a nice income now and I'm just a handsome chocolate brotha all around. But it means nothing without your kids and family.

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                • Sly
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                  • Sep 2004
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                  #9
                  You are fucking crazy.

                  Read what you just wrote. Notice WHY she is "behaving" and the conditions that YOU must keep to ensure that she behaves.
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                  • Screaming
                    I can change this!!!!!
                    • Feb 2004
                    • 18972

                    #10
                    hey man whatever makes you happy, i know you will love having the kids back with you so that prob will make it all worth it

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                    • Elli
                      Reach for those stars!
                      • Apr 2003
                      • 17991

                      #11
                      Originally posted by BVF
                      I don't care WHY she comes back as long as I can see my children. Once they're grown, she can do what she wants. It's no fun living in a three bedroom house all by yourself. I have all the hoes and sluts I want. I make a nice income now and I'm just a handsome chocolate brotha all around. But it means nothing without your kids and family.
                      If that's all you want, then I guess that's what you got. You have to make nice with her and not run her down in front of the kids, though, or it will just turn into a huge mess.
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                      • Jer
                        God is Brazilian
                        • Feb 2001
                        • 10601

                        #12
                        Sounds weird, but if it's good for you, for your mother and for your kids all I can say is good luck and congrats!

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                        • Holly
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                          • Jun 2003
                          • 10017

                          #13
                          As long as the two of you can get along and be amicable with one another, then congrats. Even if you're not madly in love, if you can live in one house and raise your kids together on good terms, then it's worth it for their benefit.
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                          • BVF
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                            • Jan 2002
                            • 13975

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Sly
                            You are fucking crazy.

                            Read what you just wrote. Notice WHY she is "behaving" and the conditions that YOU must keep to ensure that she behaves.
                            not at all. the "conditions I must keep" is MUCH cheaper than it is currently costing me to send her money and spend on gas, tolls, hotels, etc. to go visit my kids every month.

                            I'll be spending less than half of what I spend now. I can even afford to have a seperate place to do my porn shit.

                            Plus my kids are happier. It's a win/win situation.

                            You ever heard the old blues song, "It's cheaper to keep her"?

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                            • Raven
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                              • Jul 2001
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                              #15
                              Originally posted by BVF
                              True...But I just invited her back. She's been acting good for the past six months and she had no idea that I would ever let her back. I'm the one that asked her back. It wasn't the other way around.

                              Plus I am still divorced so she won't get any of my shit if she leaves and I still have a restraining order on her until 2008 so if she gets flip at the mouth while she's with me, I'll just show the police my restraining order and off to jail she goes.

                              I think she'll be ok.
                              I wish you well; but, have you forgotten the hell you went through?

                              I do see your point, though. Having the kids under the same roof is a good thing. You can always kick the ex to the curb and then file for custody when they are living under your roof again.
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                              • chase
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                                • Jul 2004
                                • 6019

                                #16
                                I'll throw your galleries up first chance I get.
                                I know that drive to keep your family together is strong, and it's better to look back and say I tried my best than say I didn't do enough. Best of luck to ya.
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                                • BVF
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                                  • Jan 2002
                                  • 13975

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by chase
                                  I'll throw your galleries up first chance I get.
                                  I know that drive to keep your family together is strong, and it's better to look back and say I tried my best than say I didn't do enough. Best of luck to ya.
                                  Thanks man. I believe in doing the right thing and karma always comes around to bless me in the end. I will be dedicating my life to doing the right thing. It seems when I give away money and things, I always get more in return.

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                                  • Shoplifter
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                                    • Jan 2002
                                    • 5863

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by BVF
                                    She's tired of getting up at 6 am every day and going to a job that she hates for mid-level pay and she's ready to come back to living with me where she doesn't have to work,

                                    A little dose of reality can be a real attitude changer. Beware.
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                                    • dasexi1
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                                      • Jul 2002
                                      • 934

                                      #19
                                      Good luck with that BVF, I know how much your girls mean to you, i remember how heart broken you were when they had to leave. I think it's great that ya'll are working things out. You're a good father and it's important for you to be with them and any sacrifice you make to do that will be a blessing in the end.

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                                      • candyflip
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                                        • Jul 2002
                                        • 43073

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by BVF
                                        Thanks man. I believe in doing the right thing and karma always comes around to bless me in the end. I will be dedicating my life to doing the right thing. It seems when I give away money and things, I always get more in return.
                                        Chase is a she. And has a big white booty that I know you would appreciate.

                                        Is it safe to say that you won't be doing the marriage thing this time around?

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                                        • CET
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                                          • Jul 2003
                                          • 2754

                                          #21
                                          I hope this works out well for you. I am not an advocate of getting back together with ex's, because ex's are ex's for a reason, but that's just me. If your kids mean so much to you that you're willing to risk what this woman may do, then I can think of no counter-argument. Do what's most important to you, just don't be stupid while doing it.

                                          Best wishes.
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                                          • chupacabra
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                                            • Sep 2002
                                            • 3626

                                            #22
                                            this the same c*nt that was threatening to try to get your parental rights screwed since you dealt in porn a while back? no fucking way, don't let that broke-ass bitch back into your life and wallet..
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                                            ...promise her a defamation, tell her where the rain will fall..

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                                            • TheMob
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                                              • Jan 2003
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                                              #23
                                              post pics please so i can give you true advice

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                                              • chase
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                                                • Jul 2004
                                                • 6019

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by candyflip
                                                Chase is a she. And has a big white booty that I know you would appreciate.

                                                Is it safe to say that you won't be doing the marriage thing this time around?
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                                                • Babagirls
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                                                  #25
                                                  in a way, its good (for the kids) but in another way, you're just askin for trouble.

                                                  i'd be crawlin back to your ass too if i couldnt make it on my own, didnt have to work, and got $500 to spend on whatever i wanted every month.

                                                  Ex's are ex's for a reason. just my 2 cents.




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                                                  • V_RocKs
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                                                    • Nov 2003
                                                    • 32451

                                                    #26
                                                    Wow.. not many of these thread here on GFY. Nice to see things are looking up for ya.

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                                                    • TheFrog
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                                                      • Jan 2004
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                                                      #27
                                                      do not let her she sounds like a right bitch

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                                                      • mardigras
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                                                        • Feb 2003
                                                        • 14194

                                                        #28
                                                        How fucked up was the "fucked up shit" she admitted to?

                                                        If you force a family setting that is not comfortable for children you are not doing them a favor. Depending on her "indiscretions" you might be better off seeking legal remedies for more time with the children.

                                                        Wonderful to think of the children but do you love her? Enough to forsake all others?
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                                                        • Mr Pheer
                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                          • Dec 2002
                                                          • 22082

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by BVF
                                                          My daughter's school will cost me 7k a year alone.
                                                          Sounds like a bargain to me. I paid $9k this year for my kid to be in kindergarten.

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                                                          • TheMob
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                                                            • Jan 2003
                                                            • 8584

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by MrPheer
                                                            Sounds like a bargain to me. I paid $9k this year for my kid to be in kindergarten.
                                                            that's crazy. amazing what you have to spend on some basic education.

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                                                            • hydro
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                                                              • Dec 2003
                                                              • 4216

                                                              #31
                                                              lol bro, worste thing you could do is bring back your ex into your life. Just make sure the kids have a shelter, food, and some entertainment with her.

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                                                              • CET
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                                                                • Jul 2003
                                                                • 2754

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by TheMob
                                                                that's crazy. amazing what you have to spend on some basic education.
                                                                A truly good education is priceless. Unfortunately, government schools do not give a good education. Their service is no where in the realm that a piravte school will give. Government schools treat their kids like they're a number and nothing else. They'll short change you, ignore you, treat you like shit and push your problems off on someone else instead of addressing them. BTW, yes, I have a serious grudge against government schools. They did all those things to me. Instead of putting me in with the gifted children, which is where I belonged, they pushed me off into the same area as the problem kids. Instead of challenging and developing my mind, they put me around a bunch of dumb, criminal thugs. Nice fuckin education and development program for a gifted child to be in.
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                                                                • pornguy
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                                                                  • Mar 2003
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  don't let her! If it didn't work out the first time, it won't this time around.
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                                                                  • Danny Dukes
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    It is very easy for someone that is looking from outside of your relationship and say fuck her and fuck that and look what she did. Truth of the matter is that lady conceived your most precious thing or things in the world, your children. People make mistakes and people also change, I think you are very lucky for her to be stepping back into your life and admiiting her wrong doings, it takes a true man or women to admit their mistakes and faults. Your one of the lucky ones somestimes they don't come back. Good luck homie and I wish you and your family the best

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                                                                    • ytcracker
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                                                                      • Dec 2002
                                                                      • 12403

                                                                      #35
                                                                      bvf i know you know how i feel about keeping family together and shit

                                                                      i hope it works out man youre in my thoughts if u want to holla let me know
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                                                                      • BitterPen
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                                                                        • Sep 2004
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        I could not imagine living without my children. I understand the decision that you are making. Just be sure to stand your ground with the ex wifey.

                                                                        As a woman, I could see a little deception hiding behind those promises... however, I would probably do the same thing you are just to be close to my kids. Congrats, and I really hope things work out for you and your family.

                                                                        Happy New Year!!!

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                                                                        • graphicsbytia
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                                                                          • Sep 2003
                                                                          • 2618

                                                                          #37
                                                                          This thread is the saddest thing I've ever read

                                                                          BVF, you implied that the kids wanted you two to get back together, is that the case? I mean did you ask them what they wanted?

                                                                          I came from a home where my parents fought all the time, it changed me, and if I were asked if I wanted my parents to be separated at that time, I think I would have said yes.. maybe

                                                                          Also.. I'm going through something similar right now, my ex husband fought for the kids, and I ended up letting him take them for a few years because they wanted to stay where they were, where their friends were, school etc. It was a tough decision, but I didn't let on to them that it broke my heart.. I was more concerned about what was good for them.

                                                                          Then 2 years after that, he had a nervous breakdown.. sold the house and dropped the kids off on my doorstep, and didn't see them for 4 years.

                                                                          Just before Christmas this year, he came to see them (after 4 years with no contact) I was so happy I welcomed him with open arms, because my kids needed him to be in their lives.. he drives a truck and comes here to visit them when he can. We aren't back together, but are very cordial with each other. For now, it's a good situation.. and I think as long as I don't get intimate with him things can be good. He's not pushing for that, and neither am I. We're enjoying our kids together, and that's it.

                                                                          Maybe this kind of situation could work for you?

                                                                          In any case hon.. the best of luck to you.. I hope you can find some kind of happiness in all this

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                                                                          • Claude
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                                                                            • Apr 2003
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            Not that it´s any of my business, but since you started this thread..... i´ll reply.

                                                                            I praise you for wanting to be with your kids, but if you want my opinion, don´t take her back.
                                                                            From what you wrote it´s just not worth it. You are not doing our kids a favour, you will never be happy like this and it will have a direct impact on your kids. You can do better, seriously, you can do better. Do sell yourself short, not even for your kids. They will be better off if you are happy.

                                                                            Just my 2 cents.

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                                                                            • speakthetruth
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              niggah please/ hoez are dime a dozen

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                                                                              • Claude
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                                                                                • Apr 2003
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by BVF
                                                                                True...But I just invited her back. She's been acting good for the past six months and she had no idea that I would ever let her back. I'm the one that asked her back. It wasn't the other way around.

                                                                                Plus I am still divorced so she won't get any of my shit if she leaves and I still have a restraining order on her until 2008 so if she gets flip at the mouth while she's with me, I'll just show the police my restraining order and off to jail she goes.

                                                                                I think she'll be ok.
                                                                                If you invited her back the restraining order doesn´t count jack shit anymore. By inviting her back, the restraining order is void/nullified (spelling?)
                                                                                You can´t have it both ways. A restraining order is not something you can just whip out when it´s convient for you.

                                                                                Anyway, hope it works out for you, but you should get rid of her and build a new life, as someone else saids ex´s are ex´s for a reason and it will never get good again. Be there for your kids, but not on the expence of being with her. It will not work in the long run and that´s not good for you kids.

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                                                                                • Funky Bastard
                                                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                                                  • Nov 2004
                                                                                  • 2544

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by BVF
                                                                                  My ex-wife actually owned up to the fucked up shit that she did to me. Before she wouldn't even admit to the shit. She apologized for everything and she said that she will try to work on her attitude. We haven't been arguing for at least six months and the kids are doing good.

                                                                                  The fact that I always sent money even though I'm not ordered child support plus the regular visits to see my children showed her that I'm not full of shit and I'll handle biz with my kids and that I love them to death.

                                                                                  She's tired of getting up at 6 am every day and going to a job that she hates for mid-level pay and she's ready to come back to living with me where she doesn't have to work, will get a 500 a month allowance, and won't have to pay any of the bills in the house. Plus she'll get help from me to raise the children. She's been struggling by herself.

                                                                                  I have the kids with me here for the holidays and soon I won't have to drive to Wisconsin once or twice a month plus send money for the kids. It will be cheaper to have them back here and my mother gets to see her grandchildren on the regular.

                                                                                  She is willing to accept what I do in porn as long as the money (and her allowance) keeps coming in and she has learned to stop telling people that I'm a pornographer and now she says that I'm a Software Engineer.

                                                                                  So this summer, my family should be reunited again. I'll be free to continue with what I love which is porn and I get to raise my children again full time....I'll be sending my oldest daughter to private school but it will be worth it.

                                                                                  So can y'all please see sig and sign up and put my fhg's up on your tgp's today. My daughter's school will cost me 7k a year alone.

                                                                                  Thanks for your time.

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                                                                                  • sweetcuties
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                                                                                    • Feb 2002
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by BVF
                                                                                    I don't care WHY she comes back as long as I can see my children. Once they're grown, she can do what she wants. It's no fun living in a three bedroom house all by yourself. I have all the hoes and sluts I want. I make a nice income now and I'm just a handsome chocolate brotha all around. But it means nothing without your kids and family.
                                                                                    I can def relate to that house shit, it sucks but sometimes it's worth it to find the right one. I'm hoping my "SweetCutie" is out there... I'm getting to the point of been there done that=)

                                                                                    Here's my 2 cents on everything. You're in a unique situation, just like one of my best friends. I'll give you the same advice I gave him. He's got a 7yr on and off relationhsip and he's got a kid. She and I believe your ex; are looking at you as a convience. If the $$ wasn't there, Would she look at you the same? Very few people know I came from a divorced home and it hurts... that's prob why I'm fucked up to this day. Anyway, my parents stayed together till I was 18 and it was pure hell! Trust me when I say that! It's not worth it, if you're doing it for your kids. Both of you will stray and your household will be fucked up.

                                                                                    Just my advice man... good knowing you for 4yrs or so.

                                                                                    Happy New Year

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                                                                                    • Alexander D Great
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                                                                                      • Dec 2004
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      I too believe ex's are ex's for a reason..
                                                                                      I don't know the full story, only what you wrote here but i can see how tough it is for you at the moment...

                                                                                      Money is an issue, as its costing you loads to go see the kids, rather than have them with you. However if you invite her back it wont be just the kids staying in the house with you, but also your wife..

                                                                                      I don't want to judge anything, but i think if you let her back you have in a way shown her that she can do whatever she wants to you and still have you..

                                                                                      I don't know if you can see it or not, but like someone else said as well, i would be coming to you too if i was struggling for money and stuff. I want to make sure you understand that she is coming back PRIMARILY because she struggles with her life (i.e. crap paying job) rather than because she actually loves you, and i know this hurts but maybe you can't see it.

                                                                                      Women can be very decieving and you really need to be careful because it might mess up your life more..

                                                                                      if you are 100% convinced she trully wants to be with you for what you ARE, and rather for what you can OFFER her, then go for it..

                                                                                      But if i was you i think if i really wanted to have my kids with me i;d tell her she needs to find a job for her own expenses. All the bills can be paid by you, but that 500$ alloance has got to go... Don't give her back EVERYTHING she had before man....
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                                                                                      • wimpy
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by chupacabra
                                                                                        this the same c*nt that was threatening to try to get your parental rights screwed since you dealt in porn a while back?
                                                                                        You should press for a legal custody agreement NOW while you have leverage. So she can't pull that shit again. Get a good lawyer, make sure she also has a good lawyer, and agree to joint custody, or sole custody. If joint custody, you can also agree to not live more than X miles apart. That'll save on the travel and it is done all the time.

                                                                                        imo, that woman is prostituting herself so she can "buy" an easy life for herself. I don't know if she's using her cunny or the kids as the tease, but it's your money and she's the whore. Beware.
                                                                                        Fyodor Dostoyevsky wrote: "Every man has reminiscences which he would not tell to everyone but only his friends. He has other matters in his mind which he would not reveal even to his friends, but only to himself, and that in secret. But there are other things which a man is afraid to tell even to himself, and every decent man has a number of such things stored away in his mind."

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                                                                                        • LadyMischief
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                                                                                          • Sep 2002
                                                                                          • 18135

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Isn't this the woman who put you through god knows how much bullshit when you split? If you take her back, be VERY cautious my man. Btw, you had a question for me from before, hit me up on icq 3522039.

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                                                                                          • wimpy
                                                                                            Confirmed User
                                                                                            • Jan 2003
                                                                                            • 607

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Originally posted by Claude
                                                                                            If you invited her back the restraining order doesn´t count jack shit anymore. By inviting her back, the restraining order is void/nullified (spelling?)
                                                                                            You can´t have it both ways. A restraining order is not something you can just whip out when it´s convient for you.
                                                                                            Kinda true, but not true. She's have a good case to nullify it, but until a Judge actually says it's recinded it is in full force. If the cops come around and see her there, and they know about the order, she will go to jail and there is nothing you can say to stop it.

                                                                                            Originally posted by Claude
                                                                                            ex´s are ex´s for a reason
                                                                                            True, but it's also true that our relationships have patterns. The patterns repeat regardless of who we are in relationship with. So, it's just as valid to fix the relationship you're in as it is to just go get a new relationship. Because the new relationship will just have the same shit in it until you fix YOUR shit.

                                                                                            Still, it's often easier to just go make a new one. You can still work on your shit, you just don't need to forgive anyone else, just yourself.

                                                                                            Of course, kids go tend to skew things in favor of fixing the old relationship, too.

                                                                                            Good luck to ya.
                                                                                            Fyodor Dostoyevsky wrote: "Every man has reminiscences which he would not tell to everyone but only his friends. He has other matters in his mind which he would not reveal even to his friends, but only to himself, and that in secret. But there are other things which a man is afraid to tell even to himself, and every decent man has a number of such things stored away in his mind."

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                                                                                            • xclusive
                                                                                              Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                              • Apr 2004
                                                                                              • 35218

                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              I wish you the best man sounds like a wonderful thing for you

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                                                                                              • escorpio
                                                                                                doesn't fuck around.
                                                                                                • Oct 2002
                                                                                                • 23485

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                I understand your pain at not being a full time father to your kids. So does she, obviously. Beware. IMO she's a lazy bitch looking for an easy way. If some guy with as much or more money than you had swooped into her life would she be back playing this shit?

                                                                                                And asking her back WAS NOT your idea! She just manipulated you into thinking it was. Take the other guy's advice and get her to agree and sign to a revised parenting plan giving you more rights and forbidding her to move the children out of state. if I hadn't had that clause in my parenting plan my son would be living in Alaska. Fuck that shit.
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                                                                                                • Paparazzi
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                                                                                                  • Mar 2002
                                                                                                  • 3488

                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Great news BVF
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                                                                                                  • mhende6600
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                                                                                                    • Nov 2002
                                                                                                    • 740

                                                                                                    #50
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