SilentKnight

I have to agree with those who said its partially because we seem to live in a throw-away era. A good strong relationship takes time and effort to maintain...and a lot of people don't seem willing to commit to the task.

I had a neverending string of short-term relationships until I reached the age of thirty. I never took them seriously, and viewed them as disposable. I was too preoccupied ensuring that I was having a good time partying with buddies and doin' the bar scene.

At 30 I finally decided I'd had enough. I was burned out, felt as though I was spinning my wheels - and wanted to settle down to a committed relationship.

So I did. 11 years later....still am.

For what its worth - I tend to think relationships all depend on the mindset of the individuals involved...not just the times we live in and societal influences that surround us. There's also the luck factor - I've always considered myself lucky to have found someone who I regard as a soulmate and best friend, who shares many things in common.