Sometimes life is like that and there is nothing that you can do. You could however try being just her friend, lay off the "remember when" or the "please come back" and just do the "so how are ya, what is new and how about meeting for coffee"
Stop that gay boohoo shit and MANUP, breakups are all about mindgames. If you and her had a longtermed relationship, she's not just going to "forget" you but she will "try. You're better off showing her that you're happier than her and doing way better than she is. She will probably cave in down the line (like you're doing) and want to hang out again.
You're in the same place as my good buddy Neil right now. Broke up with his girl about a month ago and can't get over it. I'm gonna tell you the same thing I told him, but he wont take my advice. Cut ALL contact with her for the time being. You need to flush her out of your system, no phone calls, no going out for coffee... just pretend she dropped off the face of the earth. Worked for me anyways.
been a long time already and thoughts of her are always popping back into my head.
Especially around Christmas, New Years and my Birthday.
I miss her so much.
Look fuck it you gotta move on!!! It aint easy , not meant to be ... but stand up take a walk , take a dump, do anything to move your head away from her. I been their more than one time .... Christmas, new year makes no differnce... you are allowing yourself to be take over by sentimentel baggage!
When i used to get thoughts "popping up in my head " of the X i would go for a walk and take a long look at da pussy on the steet and ask myself "could I fuck her" In the first few weeks my answer was no... then a few weeks went by and a few more walks on the street ... and then I started to think Yep I could fuck her... and so on ... then i knew i was moving on ,,,
post script : Now im a happy married webmaster, kids, ugly dog by myside, slippers, fat belly and exactly where i thought i never could be.
Look fuck it you gotta move on!!! It aint easy , not meant to be ... but stand up take a walk , take a dump, do anything to move your head away from her. I been their more than one time .... Christmas, new year makes no differnce... you are allowing yourself to be take over by sentimentel baggage!
When i used to get thoughts "popping up in my head " of the X i would go for a walk and take a long look at da pussy on the steet and ask myself "could I fuck her" In the first few weeks my answer was no... then a few weeks went by and a few more walks on the street ... and then I started to think Yep I could fuck her... and so on ... then i knew i was moving on ,,,
post script : Now im a happy married webmaster, kids, ugly dog by myside, slippers, fat belly and exactly where i thought i never could be.
Man up bro, seriously. Put all the weight on your shoulders and carry on. You'll be a stronger man in the end. Stop thinking "I cant do it" and just do it.
everything happens for a reason.. and something good will happen for you very soon.. and breaking up with your ex had to happen in order for that good thing to come about.. you'll look back and see this is true
everything happens for a reason.. and something good will happen for you very soon.. and breaking up with your ex had to happen in order for that good thing to come about.. you'll look back and see this is true
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