Originally Posted by phogirl69

There was a time when I was single for 7 years from the age of 19-26, and I mean not just single but also celibate as in NO dating, no sex, not even kissing or hugging with any guy whatsoever.

Reason was that I just wanted to be alone and free not be attached to anyone, plus it is hard for me to trust men. I think most people in general cheat, lie, and I didn't want to get caught up with that. And reading stuff on-line about hookers and massage parlors doesn't help.

I was content to live by myself and enjoy life on my own. I have a bf now, but if doesn't work out, I know I have no problem living on my own with no interaction with members of the opposite sex until I die.

I would much rather be alone then being with someone who cheats and lies. 1 year is a piece of cake, i went for 7 years, and probably could have gone on for much longer all by myself, and I mean 7 years with no physical contact with any man AT ALL.

I am not the type that flirts or fools around with guys and all of that, I really keep to myself and I am mentally stong where I don't need anyone for anything.

There's nothing wrong with being single forever. If I was single again I would get a passport and travel the world, and live wherever I wanted to live, and take up some more hobbies, but I would be just fine.