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That's a tricky question and I must say it's hard to always get the perfect slap. Slap too soft and you are a pussy. Slap too hard and it's abuse... unless you are fucking [url=http://www.extremeholly.com[Extreme Holly[/url].
Well I would say slap her a little harder than she expects to be slapped, just to surprise her. Not enough to make her mad, though. That works best, I find.
1) You have to do it like you owe the ass. If you are timid about it she'll know. That's not a turn-on.
2) You have to follow through. It's not a smack and release, it's more of a smack and hold for a second or so.
You give it a firm smack and watch her face, if you don't get any dirty looks then smack a little harder on the next one. If it's to hard the look on her face will let you know. Once you find the right level then your good to go!
My strategy is you need to give the ass a good hard spanking. Real hard always does the trick. They like when it stings a little and if you don't smack hard then you'll get laughed at.
Slap as hard as your ALLOWED to slap. Maybe push the limits a bit..but know or have an idea of expectations before hand. Or ya might be in fer trouble lol.
Almost every man on Earth has had the desire to spank his woman. Whether it's a kinky fetish or simply a spice you want to add to the dish that is your sex life, spanking definitely has its perks.
Today's tip will help men everywhere learn how, when and at what tempo they should be spanking their women.
In a perfect world, if you wanted to spank your woman, you would just do so and care nothing for the consequences, because, in a perfect world, there would be none. Unfortunately, that's not how it works in the real world.
Before you start spanking her, you have to first find out if she would actually enjoy the feeling of an open hand coming into slightly harsh contact with her buttocks. If she has ever displayed a liking for dominant sex or enjoys running her nails down your back, then spanking her is surely a go.
If you have absolutely no clue what she wants in bed, then you have to talk to her about it. I know, I know, that sounds incredibly "exciting," but believe me, if you take a moment to ask her if she's ever fantasized about being dominated, her answers may surprise you.
what to spank with?
While you have the option of spanking a butt with a paddle, a whip, or an abundance of other props, I strongly recommend that you start off with your hand. Besides the hand is best as it allows you to get the full feel of the ass-spanking connection.
Now before you start warming up your hand in preparation, remember that there are correct and incorrect ways to spank woman. You can't just start smacking away at her ass like a maniac.
No, you need to learn the appropriate way to spank her. That way, it will be enjoyable for her and you will get a thrill out of her reaction. Of course, you have the option of spanking your woman before, during or after sex. But to start, you should spank her exclusively (that means only spanking, not spanking only her).
bend over baby
Don't behave as a maniac yet; there is an actual etiquette to spanking women:
Warm up
Obviously, I don't mean that you should jog around the block; rather, rub your hands together to ensure that they're warm when they connect with her skin.
Choose the hand
Although right-handed people tend to use their right hands, you can opt to use whichever hand you're more comfortable with -- or even both, just not at the same time.
Position yourself
Place yourself in a position where you're able to maneuver freely and accurately. The last thing you want to do is smack her on her back or thigh.
Keep your hand tight
By keeping your hand solid and slightly cupping your hand, you ensure a nice sound, a slight sting and a whole lot of pleasure.
Remember that you're aiming for the meatiest part of her butt, which is the middle. After you actually slap her cheek, rub the area with your hand for a moment before you attempt to have another go at it.
Make sure you have ample room
If you want to spank that bottom right, you need to ensure that you have enough room to raise your arm freely and spank it accordingly. Sit or stand in a position where your arm can swing freely. This leaves less room for unintended mis-smacks.
Maintain control
Don't ask things like "Did that hurt?" or "Can I do it harder?" What you should do is spank her and judge what to do by her reaction. If she screams out in agony or says anything remotely close to "are you trying to kill me?" you should refrain from spanking her any harder.
If she doesn't yell out, or better yet if she moans with delight, then I strongly recommend that you spank her slightly harder and don't forget that you shouldn't spank her in quick procession. Take your time, this is an art, after all.
Of course, chances are that her butt will be red and sensitive when it's all over, but keep in mind that there is pleasure in certain kinds of pain, and this is one of those pains where this applies.
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I like to slap an ass so hard that the girl just gets mad and dont wanna fuck no more... I dont know why, I just get carried away I guess.
“If you can convince the lowest white man he’s better than the best colored man, he won’t notice you’re picking his pocket. Hell, give him somebody to look down on, and he’ll empty his pockets for you.”
I like doing it hard enough to make her yell "you fucking asshole!" and having her turn and chase me trying to spank MY ass... and that's when I get her back, and do it again.
Almost every man on Earth has had the desire to spank his woman. Whether it's a kinky fetish or simply a spice you want to add to the dish that is your sex life, spanking definitely has its perks.
Today's tip will help men everywhere learn how, when and at what tempo they should be spanking their women.
In a perfect world, if you wanted to spank your woman, you would just do so and care nothing for the consequences, because, in a perfect world, there would be none. Unfortunately, that's not how it works in the real world.
Before you start spanking her, you have to first find out if she would actually enjoy the feeling of an open hand coming into slightly harsh contact with her buttocks. If she has ever displayed a liking for dominant sex or enjoys running her nails down your back, then spanking her is surely a go.
If you have absolutely no clue what she wants in bed, then you have to talk to her about it. I know, I know, that sounds incredibly "exciting," but believe me, if you take a moment to ask her if she's ever fantasized about being dominated, her answers may surprise you.
what to spank with?
While you have the option of spanking a butt with a paddle, a whip, or an abundance of other props, I strongly recommend that you start off with your hand. Besides the hand is best as it allows you to get the full feel of the ass-spanking connection.
Now before you start warming up your hand in preparation, remember that there are correct and incorrect ways to spank woman. You can't just start smacking away at her ass like a maniac.
No, you need to learn the appropriate way to spank her. That way, it will be enjoyable for her and you will get a thrill out of her reaction. Of course, you have the option of spanking your woman before, during or after sex. But to start, you should spank her exclusively (that means only spanking, not spanking only her).
bend over baby
Don't behave as a maniac yet; there is an actual etiquette to spanking women:
Warm up
Obviously, I don't mean that you should jog around the block; rather, rub your hands together to ensure that they're warm when they connect with her skin.
Choose the hand
Although right-handed people tend to use their right hands, you can opt to use whichever hand you're more comfortable with -- or even both, just not at the same time.
Position yourself
Place yourself in a position where you're able to maneuver freely and accurately. The last thing you want to do is smack her on her back or thigh.
Keep your hand tight
By keeping your hand solid and slightly cupping your hand, you ensure a nice sound, a slight sting and a whole lot of pleasure.
Remember that you're aiming for the meatiest part of her butt, which is the middle. After you actually slap her cheek, rub the area with your hand for a moment before you attempt to have another go at it.
Make sure you have ample room
If you want to spank that bottom right, you need to ensure that you have enough room to raise your arm freely and spank it accordingly. Sit or stand in a position where your arm can swing freely. This leaves less room for unintended mis-smacks.
Maintain control
Don't ask things like "Did that hurt?" or "Can I do it harder?" What you should do is spank her and judge what to do by her reaction. If she screams out in agony or says anything remotely close to "are you trying to kill me?" you should refrain from spanking her any harder.
If she doesn't yell out, or better yet if she moans with delight, then I strongly recommend that you spank her slightly harder and don't forget that you shouldn't spank her in quick procession. Take your time, this is an art, after all.
Of course, chances are that her butt will be red and sensitive when it's all over, but keep in mind that there is pleasure in certain kinds of pain, and this is one of those pains where this applies.
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