do you ever think about how horrible it will be when your significant other dies?

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  • galleryseek
    Confirmed User
    • Mar 2002
    • 8234

    #1

    do you ever think about how horrible it will be when your significant other dies?

    assuming you live long enough and you stay with the same person, they will die some way or another. man, it really sucks to think about.
  • newbreed
    Confirmed User
    • Nov 2003
    • 9898

    #2
    I was recently very close to a person who thought about that all the time, and it had a negative impact on our relationship. Be careful how much you think about stuff like that.

    Live everyday with them like it will be the last. One day, somehow, that day will come...

    Loryn ‎(3:16 PM):
    I love it, just as long as we keep the bedroom door closed from all ears then we can have throw down hard core sex that makes us money haha
    fuck it we can have sex on money never did that before

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    • galleryseek
      Confirmed User
      • Mar 2002
      • 8234

      #3
      Originally posted by newbreed
      I was recently very close to a person who thought about that all the time, and it had a negative impact on our relationship. Be careful how much you think about stuff like that.

      Live everyday with them like it will be the last. One day, somehow, that day will come...
      nah i don't think about it all the time at all, lol. sometimes here n' there i'll catch myself thinking about it though.. maybe once every several months? heh.

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      • JuiceMonkey
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        • Oct 2004
        • 3581

        #4
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        • galleryseek
          Confirmed User
          • Mar 2002
          • 8234

          #5
          haha. hardly, i eat emo kids for breakfast.

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          • newbreed
            Confirmed User
            • Nov 2003
            • 9898

            #6
            Originally posted by galleryseek
            nah i don't think about it all the time at all, lol. sometimes here n' there i'll catch myself thinking about it though.. maybe once every several months? heh.
            My opinion is that is pretty normal, and I would say a natural thought as a relationship progresses and the bond gets stronger.

            Loryn ‎(3:16 PM):
            I love it, just as long as we keep the bedroom door closed from all ears then we can have throw down hard core sex that makes us money haha
            fuck it we can have sex on money never did that before

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            • Jace
              FBOP Class Of 2013
              • Jan 2004
              • 35562

              #7
              hell yeah, it is a terrbile thought, but everyone that has someone by their side thinks it

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              • d00t
                Confirmed User
                • Sep 2002
                • 3766

                #8
                just make sure you die first ;)

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                • Jennyfer
                  Confirmed User
                  • Sep 2005
                  • 1708

                  #9
                  i was thinking about it today but not if the other person dies i was thinking what if the other person has an accident and can't walk anymore or something like...what would you do? I think i'll take care of him no problem.
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                  • Jakke PNG
                    ex-TeenGodFather
                    • Nov 2001
                    • 20306

                    #10
                    I think more about what happens to her when I die.
                    I'll probably die in a few years due to stress and overweight.
                    ..and I'm off.

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                    • galleryseek
                      Confirmed User
                      • Mar 2002
                      • 8234

                      #11
                      Originally posted by TeenGodFather
                      I think more about what happens to her when I die.
                      I'll probably die in a few years due to stress and overweight.
                      haha, well that is all of course avoidable... you kill 2 birds with one stone when ya exercise and eat right... you eliminate a lot of stress, and you won't be overweight!

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                      • Jakke PNG
                        ex-TeenGodFather
                        • Nov 2001
                        • 20306

                        #12
                        Originally posted by galleryseek
                        haha, well that is all of course avoidable... you kill 2 birds with one stone when ya exercise and eat right... you eliminate a lot of stress, and you won't be overweight!
                        Fuck no.
                        If I exercise, I'll become even more stressed. My stress is all about my workload.
                        18 hours non-stop/day..and I still get left behind on my schedule.
                        ..and I'm off.

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                        • crockett
                          in a van by the river
                          • May 2003
                          • 76818

                          #13
                          Originally posted by TeenGodFather
                          I think more about what happens to her when I die.
                          I'll probably die in a few years due to stress and overweight.
                          Hey can I have your sites when you kick the bucket?
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                          • galleryseek
                            Confirmed User
                            • Mar 2002
                            • 8234

                            #14
                            Originally posted by TeenGodFather
                            Fuck no.
                            If I exercise, I'll become even more stressed. My stress is all about my workload.
                            18 hours non-stop/day..and I still get left behind on my schedule.
                            do you *need* to work 18 hours a day?

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                            • Jakke PNG
                              ex-TeenGodFather
                              • Nov 2001
                              • 20306

                              #15
                              Originally posted by galleryseek
                              do you *need* to work 18 hours a day?
                              Yeah..otherwise my projects will never finish. I *need* to work 20 hours/day..but I only have strength for like 18.
                              ..and I'm off.

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                              • Jakke PNG
                                ex-TeenGodFather
                                • Nov 2001
                                • 20306

                                #16
                                Originally posted by crockett
                                Hey can I have your sites when you kick the bucket?
                                No.
                                ..and I'm off.

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                                • who
                                  So Fucking Banned
                                  • Aug 2003
                                  • 19593

                                  #17
                                  I intend to die first... f

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                                  • Sly
                                    Let's do some business!
                                    • Sep 2004
                                    • 31377

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by TeenGodFather
                                    Yeah..otherwise my projects will never finish. I *need* to work 20 hours/day..but I only have strength for like 18.
                                    What you *need* to do is hire help. ;-)
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                                    • Platinumpimp
                                      Logos and such.
                                      • Jan 2004
                                      • 10214

                                      #19
                                      Well look at it from another point of view. How would it be if you would die first and your significant other would be left in sorrow. Try not to think about it too much, it's one of those things that is called life, and it will be inevitable.
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                                      • Raven
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                                        • Jul 2001
                                        • 6874

                                        #20
                                        I will be very sad.
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                                        • Jakke PNG
                                          ex-TeenGodFather
                                          • Nov 2001
                                          • 20306

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by Sly
                                          What you *need* to do is hire help. ;-)
                                          I know..and I've tried it.
                                          But I'm a fucking narcist that I get annoyed when I think they're not doing as good of a job as I would have done.
                                          I am really a person you wouldn't want to work for..
                                          ..and I'm off.

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                                          • Lord Nelson's gaping anus
                                            I scan my content from Penthouse
                                            • Feb 2006
                                            • 37

                                            #22
                                            do you ever think about how horrible it will be when your significant other dies?
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                                            • SilentKnight
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                                              • Oct 2005
                                              • 24818

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by galleryseek
                                              do you ever think about how horrible it will be when your significant other dies?
                                              assuming you live long enough and you stay with the same person, they will die some way or another. man, it really sucks to think about.
                                              Naw...she's insured.

                                              And I'm the beneficiary.

                                              Life's too short to brood on such morbid stuff...

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                                              • woj
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                                                • Jul 2002
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                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by d00t
                                                just make sure you die first ;)
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                                                • Theo
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                                                  • May 2001
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                                                  #25
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                                                  • OldSchoolJim
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                                                    • Nov 2004
                                                    • 3117

                                                    #26
                                                    Anyone who really knows me knows how close my wife and I are.....i would not last long...

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                                                    • kacy
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                                                      • Oct 2002
                                                      • 877

                                                      #27
                                                      Yes I have thought about it quite a few times and have to just stop myself because it can just make you crazy thinking about it.

                                                      There is a song by Leanne Rimes that has says "i never pictured every minute without you in it". I heard that the other day and just thought it about it....
                                                      ~Kacy

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                                                      • Furious_Female
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                                                        • Oct 2002
                                                        • 8187

                                                        #28
                                                        It hurts like hell to think about... I couldn't go on without him.
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                                                        • reynold
                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                          • Oct 2002
                                                          • 51271

                                                          #29
                                                          Just the thought of it would make me wanna die, too.

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                                                          • Sarah_Jayne
                                                            Now with more Jayne
                                                            • Dec 2002
                                                            • 40077

                                                            #30
                                                            Trust me it hurts more than you can imagine. One year and three months later and I still have nightmares about watching him die pretty much every night. It is odd when you get used to nightmares. There are daymares too. I tell people my brain is like a monitor that was left on too long and has an image burnt into it. When I am busy and doing stuff the image might not be as visible but the second my brain is allowed to rest and all the foreground images are gone I am left with this series of images that just stay there.

                                                            However, for some reason life makes you go on. If nothing more than because they would want you to go on living.

                                                            My only advice - if you possibly can prepay your funeral and at the very least make sure each of you know exactly what you want to happen to you after you die. It makes it a lot easier when people are buzzing around you to be able to flatly say 'no. This is what he/she wanted'.

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