Originally Posted by KRL

Plus they have a little girl only 8 yo.

That's the worst part of divorce. When you only get to be with your kids half the time. Besides being a pain in the ass shuttling them back and forth, scheduling the times, missing holidays together, not knowing exactly where they are when they aren't with you, having to deal with your ex's new boyfriends or husbands if they remarry, arrrrrghhhhh its the worst experience ever, especially for the kids seeing their parents and home in conflict and fights.

I'll give everyone advice. Wait to have children when you get married. Make sure your marriage is going to hold up as best you can. Once you have kids the whole dynamics change and its a real mess getting divorced with children.