Girlfriend Crap, What would you do?

DUDE, DID YOU SLAP HER??

Depends on how much you make. If this is your living then its see ya later chick, if you are pulling in like 300 a month then you might want to consider going back to secrets.

Nope all woman here. See you in Vegas and let you test it out, since your obviously in denial about your manhood.

Put your pimphand down!

Honestly, if you want both her in your life and to stay in the business, try this.

Sit down with her and calmly explain how the business works to her, that it is INTERNET porn. That if you go to a conference she can go with you. That you won't go without her. That you will have a great time travelling all over the world, hanging out with very cool people, having a great time. Make her feel that she won't lose you to porn (she might be fearful of that). That you only care about the money and not the porn aspect.

Apologize for not telling her about it before. Dishonesty in a relationship leads to further problems.

Shit, I didn't read PureMeds' response before I posted. So that's what you did too, huh? ;-)

more lies?

DynaMite

hahaha

puremeds answer is the truth, Porn is only providing the cash for the other things in life for the both of you.

Most other 21 year olds are making 5 bucks an hour, She oughtta be grateful for the life you can provide bro.

If she dont chill out, tell her to hit the bricks and get a new babe, or buy yourself a new car to roll in as a breakup present.

also, excercise, join the health club, cuz if you are out of shape your girl will take porn is taking its toll

How did she find out? Did you tell her? If she caught you in a lie she does have a right to be pissed.

Try showering her with money and gifts, that always helps.

Justify the extra income. hehe

maybe you need to do the hare krishna trick.

negotiate with her. ask her to allow you to be able to work something totally fucked up! something that even you wouldn't do yourself.

when she of course says no, then ask for something less, ask her to allow you to be able to do the thing you actually do for real.

rules of reciprocity could make her say "yes"

pictures please before I render my opinion

no, seriously, work it out. perhaps create a site for her to run for women. or, perhaps ask her to make a porn and you and she can make money on it together.....

ok, maybe those are not good ideas...

Reminds me of this new song floating around.. It's relevant so I'll post.

[method man]

I was gutta when you met me, gutta when you left me, gutta when you came back, face it, nothing can change that. Not romance, nor marriage counselling, you dropped the ball now I'm bouncin, find me a room to smoke up an ounce in. Waitin for my baby to call, forgivin' all, on some break up, to make up shit, giving me drawers... Now I adore mi amour, but every time she wanna go to war... I'm lookin... At the FRONT DOOR

[pharoahe monch]

You can keep the negatives ma, please.. I get the picture. But the emotional ties was different when I first split ya. Claimin I brought pain to the thing like King Kong, like villains in them western flicks said I was well hung.. Who put you up on Talib Kweli in the village of slum, read the book of Psalms to give you Maoth Say Tung... And you actin like you don't know what I came here for... It's wrong to put our spiritual growth at the front door, infectionous smiles, so you can front more, I SHOULD call you somethin that walks on all four's, but you got a fella heated for sure, love it or delete it, it's raw, feelin cheated when I'm out on tour, I catch a glimpse from beyond this globe - on the same note. Cuz in torrential downpours, I keep a raincoat, and a bottle of Cham'bore to let the brain float, pray for sun after the rain, and greet the rainbow.

[kool g rap]

G rap aconda, I'm not the kind that's prone to be dissed, so let me make this clear for you just like the stones on my wrist. Just cause the door's closed don't mean I'm on the phone with a chick, I'm just a cat about his B.I. in the zone to get rich. Straight up politickin' so where you lay your dome will be sick, stack cake, keep food on the plate, and chrome on the 6. Then we can make a little fam, just us alone in the sticks, and I can get rid of these bricks and be gone from the strip... Y'know?

Yes, great advice you're getting here. BUY back her love with vacations and gifts, should really do the trick. In 5 years when you're making $300 a month and still working in porn, say good-bye to her. She'll be out the door once again.

Go read the thread from Turboface again. A real life story of how bought love works.

heh, boot her ass out the door, no question. who would want to be with someone who's against porn? it seems like such a silly thing to be against.

maybe she has self esteem issues or something? sounds like drama.

I guess You do what You do because of the kind of person You are. If You change what You are because of somebody else, then You wouldn't be yourself. If You are not Yourself then You are not the person she met in the first place, and if that is not the case she will leave You anyway.

ChrisL

Stand up for yourself!

Ok, here is how it went down.

I basically came clean and explained to her that porn is the reason we live in a 4bed/3bath right outside seattle and drive a CLK at 21 . It was funny because all this time she thought the money was coming from my dating site: http://www.alldating.net . She basically calmed down about the whole thing after we just talked. I think some of you are right in saying that she just doesnt want to lose me to porn and i think it was also a control tactic.

Luckily she has a brain and realized shed have to get her ass a retail job or some shit.

Damn, does this turn the tables at all? Do I get any extra relationship power now or will this shit just come up again in 3 months?

-max

Ah... so I was right, she likes the money. Sounds like a gem.