Some software links to get you started on your research...
http://www.firecrackervideo.com/
http://www.ultravid.com/groupv.htm
http://www.hellonetwork.com
http://www.parachat.com/
good way to start...
http://pleasuregirls.net/
I've been working my way to getting the same thing going... so if you have any questions feel free to ICQ me 158325978... I've done a lot of research in the area...