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  • noam
    Confirmed User
    • Jul 2004
    • 730
    #1

    Screwed up relationships

    Last year I broke up with my my ex of two years because she was 4 years older (27) than me (23) and I couldn't see a future with her.

    Now, I met this girl that lives in another state and is one year older than my ex. I don't believe long distance relationships work and I still think I need to find someone my age.

    Yet, I feel an urge to persue a relationship with her. We only spent one day together, but there's some think about her that draws me in.

    I pretty much know it will be doomed from the beginning - but I can't seem to avoid thinking how much fun I'd have until the inevitable doom will arrive.
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    • EroticySteve
      Confirmed User
      • Mar 2005
      • 4365
      #2
      I'm not an expert, no one is, and even self-proclaimed relationship experts are merely running on a streak of success and luck.

      In my opinion love and relationships depend simply on acceptance and compromise. Externally love and relationships all look alike, and they all look good and functional. For anyone that's been in a relationship we know that these aren't always the cases.

      Whether or not this one will work out has to do with timing, readiness, compromise and common goals. Don't rule it out before it starts.
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        • sonofsam
          Too lazy to set a custom title
          • Dec 2004
          • 18642
          #3
          Originally posted by noam
          Yet, I feel an urge to persue a relationship with her. We only spent one day together, but there's some think about her that draws me in.
          of course it feels like that... it's only been 1 day, and you wan't to get to know them better and see how they are..

          one of the funnest things about dating, in my opinion, is getting to know another person and seeing if you were right in your assumptions of what kinda girl they are...

          but a long distance relationship like that is gonna be hard work on both ends

          good luck with it though...
          I like turtles.

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            • everestcash
              Confirmed User
              • Apr 2002
              • 2194
              #4
              Just don't think too much about, live it on. If it works out in the end, good for both of you, if it doesn't, then it doesn't.

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                • noam
                  Confirmed User
                  • Jul 2004
                  • 730
                  #5
                  Originally posted by sonofsam
                  of course it feels like that... it's only been 1 day, and you wan't to get to know them better and see how they are..

                  one of the funnest things about dating, in my opinion, is getting to know another person and seeing if you were right in your assumptions of what kinda girl they are...

                  but a long distance relationship like that is gonna be hard work on both ends

                  good luck with it though...
                  Well, I'm in sales and I live in a hotels - so it's not going to make my life much harder than it already is...

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                    • Abithefiend
                      Confirmed User
                      • Nov 2005
                      • 756
                      #6
                      Age in a relationship doesn't matter IMO. If you have fun together and there's an attraction there I don't see any reason not to go for it, regardless to how much older than you she is. Plenty of people have made it work with much bigger agegaps. At the end of the day there's no guarruntee either way so just go with the flow if it makes you happy.

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