16,000 members eh?
wow... pretty impressive... i wonder what happened to your forum then, huh?
http://www.cozydating.com/client/php/forum/index.php
listen... your site looks nice and everything, but you're trying to lie to WEBMASTERS here.. don't be stupid.. you don't have 16,000 members... sorry let me rephrase.. you don't have 16,000 REAL members..
good luck with it though