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  • SleazyDream
    I'm here for SPORT
    • Jul 2001
    • 41470

    #1

    Can you ever really trust someone?

    trust, can you REALLY trust - truly trust - another human being?

    how do you get to that point?


    discuss
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  • TheFrog
    Confirmed User
    • Jan 2004
    • 4095

    #2
    Trust is built on delivered promises.

    At least in my book anyway. If someone's as good as their word, I trust them a little bit more.

    The only people I trust by default are my family.

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    • detoxed
      vip member
      • Jan 2003
      • 17798

      #3
      I would guess it would take years and years of no fuckups and thinking in a very similiar way. And both parties must have something to lose by breaking the trust.

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      • SleazyDream
        I'm here for SPORT
        • Jul 2001
        • 41470

        #4
        i feel sorry for both of you
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        • iFliPcEss
          Registered User
          • Dec 2003
          • 3087

          #5
          I learned my lessons the hardest way you coulc ever imagine, and it is really hard for me to trust once again, but if there is one person that i really trust it has to be my mom

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          • Manowar
            jellyfish  
            • Dec 2003
            • 71528

            #6
            i trust everyone until they fuck me over, then they lose my trust. i think my system works well

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            • Theo
              HAL 9000
              • May 2001
              • 34515

              #7
              i feel sorry for all five of you

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              • Harmon
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                • Mar 2004
                • 20012

                #8
                Nope. You can't. The only person you can TRULY ever trust is yourself. If you claim to trust someone other than yourself, you are doing nothing more than humoring yourself and putting your rotten and skeptical mind at ease, even for just a few minutes.
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                • Theo
                  HAL 9000
                  • May 2001
                  • 34515

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Harmon
                  Nope. You can't. The only person you can TRULY ever trust is yourself. If you claim to trust someone other than yourself, you are doing nothing more than humoring yourself and putting your rotten and skeptical mind at ease, even for just a few minutes.

                  don't you trust your family?

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                  • The_Oracle_Porn
                    So Fucking Banned
                    • Dec 2004
                    • 563

                    #10
                    I trust only one person in this world.
                    Myself.

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                    • Harmon
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                      • Mar 2004
                      • 20012

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
                      don't you trust your family?
                      To a certain extent. I have just learned through whatever avenues that I have crossed throughout my life not to give 100% of it away.
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                      • The_Oracle_Porn
                        So Fucking Banned
                        • Dec 2004
                        • 563

                        #12
                        "true friends" bla bla bla is a fucking myth.

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                        • Living For Today
                          Confirmed User
                          • Feb 2002
                          • 3970

                          #13
                          You never know what can happen in life. ANYTHING is possible.

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                          • div3x
                            Confirmed User
                            • Jun 2003
                            • 491

                            #14
                            Originally posted by The_Oracle_Porn
                            I trust only one person in this world.
                            Myself.

                            me too

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                            • Shoehorn!
                              Die With Your Boots On
                              • Oct 2003
                              • 22872

                              #15
                              Originally posted by SleazyDream
                              trust, can you REALLY trust - truly trust - another human being?

                              how do you get to that point?


                              discuss
                              I don't think you ever SHOULD trust someone 100%. To me, I always question all motives behind what people are doing. If someone says hi to me, I think "oh, that was nice of them," but right after that I think "I wonder what they want."

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                              • Mutt
                                Too lazy to set a custom title
                                • Sep 2002
                                • 34431

                                #16
                                you MIGHT be able to put your trust 100% in ONE or TWO people in this life and they are usually family. Also depends on what you consider a breach of trust - some people are overly sensitive, so ANY slight wrongdoing by somebody they care about is taken as a serious breach of trust when to most other people it wouldn't.

                                even the nicest people with alot of integrity have an agenda - their own. the only people i think you could be able to trust 100% are people who would die for you basically, and that would be family, a parent usually. they have no other agenda than you being happy, not for them, but for yourself. That said, I don't trust my mother farther than I could throw her. My old man was the only one I could trust 100%. Siblings - at one point i thought i could but I realized they have their own agenda as well.

                                Once you start mixing in sex/romance/serious relationship/marriage, gets dicey. There are agendas there and expectations that sometimes never get mentioned - until things break down under the pressure of real life.

                                Most Likely To Be 100% Trustworthy

                                1. Parent
                                2. One best friend, long long time best friend
                                3. Sibling
                                4. Lover
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                                • coolfuck
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                                  • Jun 2004
                                  • 2440

                                  #17
                                  no .. i only trust myself
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                                  • Herb Kornfield
                                    Is on the 1
                                    • Sep 2002
                                    • 4996

                                    #18
                                    Just my immediate family and thats it.

                                    Alot of people will talk shit about being freinds, partners and all that happy lovey shit.... Then get some money involved and you'll see the real personalities come thru...

                                    Anytime there is money involved, dont trust a motherfucker at all or you'll wind up looking for places to hide the bodies.

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                                    • chemicaleyes
                                      UNSTOPPABLE
                                      • Aug 2003
                                      • 11569

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by TheSmutPeddlerDOTcom
                                      I don't think you ever SHOULD trust someone 100%. To me, I always question all motives behind what people are doing. If someone says hi to me, I think "oh, that was nice of them," but right after that I think "I wonder what they want."
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                                      • monaro
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Aug 2003
                                        • 968

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                        trust, can you REALLY trust - truly trust - another human being?

                                        how do you get to that point?


                                        discuss
                                        One would consider that the person you decide to tie the knot with in marriage.

                                        When only once trust is broken, marriage then follows suite. Something I learned long time ago with my marriage breakdown.

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                                        • chodadog
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • Apr 2002
                                          • 9736

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by Manowar
                                          i trust everyone until they fuck me over, then they lose my trust. i think my system works well
                                          Fuck that.

                                          I trust very few people. I take the odd leap of faith, but it's normally a calculated risk and has nothing to do with trusting the other person. The only people i trust one hundred percent are my family, less than a handful of close friends and a few people i've done business with. Everyone else can eat my ass until they earn my trust.
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                                          • groark
                                            So Fucking Banned
                                            • Nov 2003
                                            • 1966

                                            #22
                                            Well.... It's really hard or impossible to know what twisted ways thouhgts of other humans go.. I know mine are twisted

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                                            • kmanrox
                                              aka K-Man
                                              • Oct 2001
                                              • 29295

                                              #23
                                              Never trust ANYBODY, EVER.

                                              One of my Jewish friends told me this.
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                                              • Trixxxia
                                                Confirmed User
                                                • Aug 2004
                                                • 5600

                                                #24
                                                My way of working is everyone has 'level 1' trust to start - they are tested - they are checked & rechecked and if they are good, they get to level 2 - then the tests start again & so on until level 5 - The only person on level 5 is my husband - he's been put through all tests & comes through with flying colors & nobody ever has.

                                                My father always warned me that respect & trust was earned, not acquired through relation - I always keep that in mind.

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                                                • EyesWideShut
                                                  Confirmed User
                                                  • Jun 2004
                                                  • 354

                                                  #25
                                                  There are different levels of trust. For example, I trust myself with my credit card #. I trust my family with a key to my house. I trust a friend with my phone #. So I guess I trust everybody but at the same time I don't trust anybody 100%
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                                                  • Rebel D
                                                    Registered User
                                                    • Jan 2004
                                                    • 3913

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by Manowar
                                                    i trust everyone until they fuck me over, then they lose my trust. i think my system works well
                                                    I agree With that as wel there are different levels of trust. i wouldn;t lend $1000 to someone i just met. but someone i have known for years i can do it. But if you fuck me over once you get nothing from me

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                                                    • Fred Quimby
                                                      Confirmed User
                                                      • Jul 2004
                                                      • 5430

                                                      #27
                                                      I trust my 3 year old daughter more that most people

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                                                      • 2HousePlague
                                                        CURATOR
                                                        • Jul 2004
                                                        • 14572

                                                        #28
                                                        Yes, I think so.

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                                                        tada!

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                                                        • KRL
                                                          Entrepreneur
                                                          • Oct 2002
                                                          • 31429

                                                          #29
                                                          I trust my kid and my dogs and I'm grateful for that.
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                                                          • germ
                                                            ( o Y o )
                                                            • Oct 2002
                                                            • 3108

                                                            #30
                                                            yes

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                                                            • Tempest
                                                              Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                              • May 2004
                                                              • 10217

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                              trust, can you REALLY trust - truly trust - another human being?

                                                              how do you get to that point?

                                                              discuss
                                                              The correct answer is... no... not even yourself...

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                                                              • Anal Hobbit
                                                                So Fucking Banned
                                                                • Aug 2001
                                                                • 2308

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                trust, can you REALLY trust - truly trust - another human being?

                                                                how do you get to that point?


                                                                discuss
                                                                Trust them with what???

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                                                                • Anal Hobbit
                                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                                  • Aug 2001
                                                                  • 2308

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Trust Jesus...

                                                                  If you cant trust Jesus who can you trust???

                                                                  Dang.. That sounds familiar....

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