For those who give a shit.... Why I have been a lil scarce...

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  • dropped9
    Registered User
    • Jan 2001
    • 26727

    #1

    For those who give a shit.... Why I have been a lil scarce...

    For those who give a shit... I know I have been a lil scarce during the day for the past week or so... I am just at this point in my life where I am going through a little nervous breakdown I think.

    I have been a very head strong person all my life and at this point with the wifey getting pregnant and everything else that has happened in my life over the past few months I guess my glass just over spilled a little.

    I am 26 years old and have never gone through anything like this before.

    But thats besides the point. I am working on it and getting back on my feet. So if anyone has wondered why I have been here and there, and slow to respond it is because I am taking a lil time off throughout the day to get myself together again.

    I dont give a shit what you haters have to say, nor do I care who uses this against me in anyway, shape, or form in the future.

    Thanks for the ear whoever reads this thread.

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  • BradM
    Confirmed User
    • Dec 2003
    • 3397

    #2
    Work through it man... life can be really stressfull at times. You need to allow yourself to crack, don't try to be the strong man when all you need to do is cry. You'll drive yourself nuts.

    Get up on those feet bitch!

    Cheers

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    • EdgeXXX
      Confirmed User
      • Oct 2005
      • 5816

      #3
      I think we all go through it sooner or later, just keep your head up and stay strong and you'll be just fine.
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      • Headless
        Registered User
        • Jan 2001
        • 26727

        #4
        Originally posted by BradM
        Work through it man... life can be really stressfull at times. You need to allow yourself to crack, don't try to be the strong man when all you need to do is cry. You'll drive yourself nuts.

        Get up on those feet bitch!

        Cheers
        You know what dude... I cried for 3 days straight over the weekend. And at one point no bullshit I looked at gfy and thought of the thread you made about the crying or anxiety... The one i posted the baby pic in... And I laughed...

        Good times...

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        • LiveDose
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          • Feb 2002
          • 25792

          #5
          You are smart to be taking that time for yourself before you have a serious break down. Keep your head up playa!

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          • lazycash
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            • Aug 2002
            • 15214

            #6
            I can relate, my wife and I just had our first child two months ago and it definitely makes you re assess many aspects of your life.
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            • Daruma
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              • Nov 2002
              • 3494

              #7
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              • BradM
                Confirmed User
                • Dec 2003
                • 3397

                #8
                Originally posted by Headless
                You know what dude... I cried for 3 days straight over the weekend. And at one point no bullshit I looked at gfy and thought of the thread you made about the crying or anxiety... The one i posted the baby pic in... And I laughed...

                Good times...
                I've had a couple complete breakdowns before I won't lie. I've had an interesting life thus far and nothing seemed easy.

                You'll get through it and grow as a person in the process. The last year I have changed a lot and you'll probably never see me fuming mad ever again - not worth it. ;)

                Just remember NOTHING ever goes 100% to plan. There will be bumps. You just need to be able to isolate problems and situations and deal with them one at a time. If you take every issue and take a bat to them all you'll miss the swing every time.

                What I am getting at is take the time to think that you need and don't be afraid if you feel or are vulnerable. Everyone has been there and I doubt anyone will think less of a person who is just in a bit of a weird spot.

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                • Ice
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                  • Nov 2002
                  • 26053

                  #9
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                  • Headless
                    Registered User
                    • Jan 2001
                    • 26727

                    #10
                    Originally posted by BradM
                    I've had a couple complete breakdowns before I won't lie. I've had an interesting life thus far and nothing seemed easy.

                    You'll get through it and grow as a person in the process. The last year I have changed a lot and you'll probably never see me fuming mad ever again - not worth it. ;)

                    Just remember NOTHING ever goes 100% to plan. There will be bumps. You just need to be able to isolate problems and situations and deal with them one at a time. If you take every issue and take a bat to them all you'll miss the swing every time.

                    What I am getting at is take the time to think that you need and don't be afraid if you feel or are vulnerable. Everyone has been there and I doubt anyone will think less of a person who is just in a bit of a weird spot.
                    Thank you.

                    I am also going through a big change myself. Ask Franck, I honestly put out my cyber hand the other night. I am done with the bullshit. Life means more then this pissing shit. Dont get me wrong I will defend and call a spade a spade, but its time to calm down with the beef.

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                    • xclusive
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                      • Apr 2004
                      • 35218

                      #11
                      Hang in there man getting ready to be a dad can be very stressful. It's good to take a little time for yourself. I hope that all turns out well

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                        #12
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                        • RayBonga
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                          • Nov 2005
                          • 12164

                          #13
                          You should take your time to sort out whatever you need to sort out.

                          Better to solve this kind of shit straight away than to let it linger

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                          • NoWhErE
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                            • Sep 2005
                            • 10583

                            #14
                            You should ask for life advice from a few of the Klikrevenu folk!


                            but on a serious note, most of us have been there. Most of us try to put on a tough exterior for the public to see while, inside of us all, we`re all pretty worried.

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                            • xxxice
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                              • Feb 2002
                              • 5042

                              #15
                              Sorry to hear this. Hope all is well now. I stopped by the chat room a while ago but u were not there

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                              • Headless
                                Registered User
                                • Jan 2001
                                • 26727

                                #16
                                Originally posted by NoWhErE
                                Never let the weight of the world crush your spirit

                                Thank you for that line. I have been making a notepad full of different lines and quotes and stuff. I read it when I need to give me a kick in the ass.


                                Thank you.

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                                  #17
                                  Well... welcome back, Headless

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                                  • pornguy
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                                    • Mar 2003
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                                    #18
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                                    • candyflip
                                      Carpe Visio
                                      • Jul 2002
                                      • 43070

                                      #19
                                      Headless, I know you don't like me and don't think much of me...but I have been through this and lived with someone who went through it.

                                      If you ever want to chat, I am always available to anyone friend or foe who might be in this situation.

                                      I give you shit here and maybe that wasn't fair of me. I've always liked you and your board persona, even though we haven't gotten along.

                                      If any of the shit I had give you added to your stress, I'm sorry for that. I was genuinely concerned and I'm the type of person who needs a swift kick in the ass to get going...so sometimes I turn that on other people and they don't operate that way.

                                      I do hope you stay healthy, for your own sake and the sake of your family.

                                      It's a new year and I'd really like to bury the hatchet if that's at all possible.

                                      Keep your chin up. It always get's better. I spent the afternoon with 3 month old neice and that little smile is reason enough to work hard. You've got plenty of reason to hang in there

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                                      • fetishblog
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                                        • Sep 2005
                                        • 5995

                                        #20
                                        Keep your head up dude, everything will work out on it's own.

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                                        • Headless
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                                          • Jan 2001
                                          • 26727

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by candyflip
                                          Headless, I know you don't like me and don't think much of me...but I have been through this and lived with someone who went through it.

                                          If you ever want to chat, I am always available to anyone friend or foe who might be in this situation.

                                          I give you shit here and maybe that wasn't fair of me. I've always liked you and your board persona, even though we haven't gotten along.

                                          If any of the shit I had give you added to your stress, I'm sorry for that. I was genuinely concerned and I'm the type of person who needs a swift kick in the ass to get going...so sometimes I turn that on other people and they don't operate that way.

                                          I do hope you stay healthy, for your own sake and the sake of your family.

                                          It's a new year and I'd really like to bury the hatchet if that's at all possible.

                                          Keep your chin up. It always get's better. I spent the afternoon with 3 month old neice and that little smile is reason enough to work hard. You've got plenty of reason to hang in there
                                          WOW.

                                          I didn't expect that from you. We have been at each others throats for a long time now and have exchanged some heavy blows together.


                                          Originally posted by candyflip
                                          It's a new year and I'd really like to bury the hatchet if that's at all possible.
                                          Consider it done. I am tired of fighting with everyone. Its that time.

                                          /me extends the cyber hand....

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                                          • justsexxx
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                                            • Aug 2001
                                            • 13723

                                            #22
                                            Karma is a bitch
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                                            • Headless
                                              Registered User
                                              • Jan 2001
                                              • 26727

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by justsexxx
                                              Karma is a bitch

                                              Isnt she... wait til she knocks on your door my friend.

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                                              • je_rome
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                                                • Jul 2005
                                                • 6846

                                                #24
                                                what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. I'm very sure you'll get over this.
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                                                • candyflip
                                                  Carpe Visio
                                                  • Jul 2002
                                                  • 43070

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by Headless
                                                  WOW.

                                                  I didn't expect that from you. We have been at each others throats for a long time now and have exchanged some heavy blows together.




                                                  Consider it done. I am tired of fighting with everyone. Its that time.

                                                  /me extends the cyber hand....
                                                  You didn't expect that out of me because you don't know me. You just know the bullshit.

                                                  But that's what it is...bullshit. GFY is like family, everyone nags everyone else and sometimes we go at it.

                                                  It's still the same in the end.

                                                  /my end is extended as well

                                                  Would love to chat sometime if you're up for it. I got your ICQ spam messages in the past, so I might be on your list.

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                                                  • Va2k
                                                    I’m still alive barley.
                                                    • Oct 2001
                                                    • 10060

                                                    #26
                                                    Wow ya only 26?? FUCK I feel old, thought you were like in your 30's to 40's

                                                    Good luck with what ya going through dude, I mean it.

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                                                    • KMR Stitch
                                                      I am cool
                                                      • Jul 2003
                                                      • 14494

                                                      #27
                                                      And yet.. I really could give a shit

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                                                      • Bluewire Ross
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                                                        • Nov 2005
                                                        • 2169

                                                        #28
                                                        life sucks...sometimes. but generally, Life is Beautiful !

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                                                        • MikeyFingaz
                                                          Confirmed User
                                                          • Aug 2005
                                                          • 1569

                                                          #29
                                                          its good that you are expressing to others how you feel man... you got balls bro, coming on here of all places to tell how you feel..

                                                          i am someone who has been thru just about every life situation you can imagine, but this one is one that i have no experience in... i dont know what to say to help, i wish i had some words of wisdom for you man...

                                                          all i can say is hang in there, and continue to be the rock you once were, but also remember that it is perfectly ok to feel this way, and it is ok to let your feelings out...

                                                          dont keep it bottled up inside bro...

                                                          on a side note, i am really impressed with the gfy'ers thus far (save one) who have shown thier support... it shows that when it pertains to what really matters, people know when to seperate the bullshit flaming and slamming of one another from what really matters...

                                                          headless, it seems you have more friends than you thought...

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                                                          • TDF
                                                            Triple OG nigga on GFY
                                                            • Mar 2002
                                                            • 27296

                                                            #30
                                                            get on a diet and lose some weight,trust me man,you will feel sooo much better about life and yourself in general.As much as I dislike you I would hate to see you have a twinkie induced heart attack.From one fat ass to another get it together!
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                                                            • neverlearn
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                                                              • Feb 2004
                                                              • 2085

                                                              #31
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                                                              • SmokeyTheBear
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                                                                • Jun 2004
                                                                • 28609

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by Headless
                                                                You know what dude... I cried for 3 days straight over the weekend. .

                                                                maybe your gay ??

                                                                jk .. stress and diet combined with moving over that "peak" of age where everything is downhill it seems..

                                                                dont stress it happens to the best of them ( except me of course because i'm not gay )
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                                                                • sfera
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                                                                  • Aug 2005
                                                                  • 8597

                                                                  #33
                                                                  glad to hear you are getting through it

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                                                                  • WME
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                                                                    • May 2004
                                                                    • 1005

                                                                    #34
                                                                    whenever you go thru tough times, just think about the good and happy things in your life that is worth living for. hang in there, dude.
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                                                                    • Spunky
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                                                                      • Jun 2002
                                                                      • 133978

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Keep your head up twinkles..I hope things get a lot more better for ya soon

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                                                                      • Fresh
                                                                        • Mar 2005
                                                                        • 4920

                                                                        #36
                                                                        right on man, venting is key!


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                                                                        • Furious_Male
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                                                                          • Oct 2003
                                                                          • 16884

                                                                          #37
                                                                          Perhaps I can take over your radio show during the day. I can spin some Back Street Boys, New Kids on the block, Nysnc, and all that other great music everyone loves. Will that help?

                                                                          Seriously I hope you feel better. Eb and flow man. Go with it and you can't lose.
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                                                                          • uno
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                                                                            • Dec 2002
                                                                            • 18450

                                                                            #38
                                                                            Headless, if you ever feel the need, hit me on icq@ 111914. I'm awake almost all the time.
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                                                                            • reynold
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                                                                              • Oct 2002
                                                                              • 51271

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by Bluewire Ross
                                                                              life sucks...sometimes. but generally, Life is Beautiful !
                                                                              Exactly dude!

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                                                                              • PenisFace
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                                                                                • Oct 2003
                                                                                • 3774

                                                                                #40
                                                                                Yeah, i thought it seemed a little less FAT around here, lately. Seriously though, you're gonna die a reaaaal young man if you dont get that shit under control.
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                                                                                • adultchica
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                                                                                  • Sep 2005
                                                                                  • 5141

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Headless once that child gets here you will no longer feel worry or nervous

                                                                                  It is the most beautiful and touching thing in the entire world to have a child, and you will love that child more than ANYTHING ELSE. I mean it, more than ANYTHING.


                                                                                  I don't care what anyone says, having a child also changes you FOR THE BETTER (almost 9 times out of 10). I know it made me a better person. At times it has been hard, but the joys and good times far outweigh any of the hard times.

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                                                                                  • Furious_Female
                                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                                    • Oct 2002
                                                                                    • 8187

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Napolean and I have become very close to you over the past 6 months or so... we consider you one of our best friends (ok our only friend j/k). For all of you that don't know, Headless is one of the coolest, down to earth, and loyal people you could ever hope to meet in your lifetime.

                                                                                    Take it from someone who goes in and out of everyday struggles, it ALWAYS gets better. Nowhere to go but up when you're down, right? It's not easy but one step at a time and before you know it, you're on another story. Life can fuckin SUCK sometimes but one cliche always picks me up a bit ... "there's always someone that has it worse" - so true.

                                                                                    Anything you need, we're here for you guys group hug \/ hehe
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                                                                                    • larsson
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                                                                                      • Dec 2005
                                                                                      • 58

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      i dont know you

                                                                                      I dont know you mate, but sorry to hear your feeling this way, think it happens to us all at some point in our lives, we are all human, and we all have our ups n downs

                                                                                      But take it from me your so lucky to have a baby on the way, im trying for one myself at moment.

                                                                                      You need to sit down and work thro ur feelings and deal with each issue 1 at a time, rember there is always light at the end of the tunnel u just have to keep walking to get there
                                                                                      good luck and hope things pick up for u
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                                                                                      • jade_dragon
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                                                                                        • May 2004
                                                                                        • 1737

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        do not know you but still wish you the best of luck with the expansion of your family and your business this year.
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                                                                                        • wyldblyss
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                                                                                          • Nov 2003
                                                                                          • 5779

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          It happens to the best of us. Just work through it, take it day by day and things will work out

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                                                                                          • Pornwolf
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                                                                                            • Jan 2002
                                                                                            • 22712

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Stay healthy & take care of yourself.
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                                                                                            • Dravyk
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                                                                                              • Jan 2001
                                                                                              • 1202

                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Headless, long time since we gabbed on the horn. Let's do it soon. This week or next, man. I'm here for ya.
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                                                                                              • Shoehorn!
                                                                                                Die With Your Boots On
                                                                                                • Oct 2003
                                                                                                • 22872

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Headless Live kicks ass.

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                                                                                                • wzl
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                                                                                                  • Oct 2005
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                                                                                                  #49
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                                                                                                  • Headless
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                                                                                                    • Jan 2001
                                                                                                    • 26727

                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by Furious_Female
                                                                                                    Napolean and I have become very close to you over the past 6 months or so... we consider you one of our best friends (ok our only friend j/k). For all of you that don't know, Headless is one of the coolest, down to earth, and loyal people you could ever hope to meet in your lifetime.

                                                                                                    Take it from someone who goes in and out of everyday struggles, it ALWAYS gets better. Nowhere to go but up when you're down, right? It's not easy but one step at a time and before you know it, you're on another story. Life can fuckin SUCK sometimes but one cliche always picks me up a bit ... "there's always someone that has it worse" - so true.

                                                                                                    Anything you need, we're here for you guys group hug \/ hehe

                                                                                                    Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart. You two cooky and crazy guys have been great friends to me over the past few months.

                                                                                                    I mean it.

                                                                                                    Also thank you to everyone else for the words of encouragment. Times like this are rough, especially when you've never gone through them before.

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