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Also I think it has a lot to do with how a guy grew up and what their parents relationship was like. For example, my ex parents were not violent with each other (as far as I know) and he's real close to his mother and was kind of pampered growing up, and he never hit me or called me names during our fights... I think his upbringing has a lot to do with it. But he DOES have other flaws like lying and a ton of other stuff...
The guy I'm with now grew up in a dysfunctional home his parents were violent, his mom and dad used to throw knives at each other (I heard) and his dad kicked down the door and I think punched the mother in the head till she bled, so perhaps that's why my bf has the views that he does.
I think upbringing has A LOT to do with it.
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