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Hmm... I like how some guys feel like the just "can't hit a woman" because they were just "raised that way"... Too bad my bf doesn't feel that way...
I talked about this with my bf and he doesn't believe in all that, he said "why is it always about the woman? Why can't it be about the guy? Who do women always think they can get away with stuff because they were opressed for hundreds of years? It should be equal."
Well, that's his viewpoint, not mine. I never hit my bf put I've yelled at him and pull him back during our intense fights, he never hit me hard, but my bf has the view point that it's "ok to slap some sense into a woman" at certain times, but rest assured I'm not some poor battered woman or anything. He doesn't mean hit as in knock them out, but just lightly slap a bit of sense into "them"... lol
Probably not the healthiest relationship but you can't have it all in a relationship. Some men proclaim they would "NEVER" hit a woman, but then they have other faults such as they cheat, or flirt with other women.
Basically no one is perfect, if it's not one flaw it's the other. I wouldn't be happy with a guy who is perfectly gentlemanly and never cusses at me and gets physical with during fights but cheats... So basically I think it's really difficult to find a man who is perfect, so I accept his flaws.
I never hit him, but I've yelled at him and tried to get attention by pulling him towards me because I wasn't done explaining something... And he has slapped me lightly before in the face too because of that, but it's not anything I'm gonna cry about. It also doesn't happen often.
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