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  • Head
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    • Nov 2003
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    #1

    Guys do you pay on the first or second date?

    Ever when i was broke i saved quarters, dollars and not spend a dime just to save for that date. Some guys i know won't spring and they're still single.
  • spamofon
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    • Jun 2003
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    #2
    nobody likes cheap fucks

    i pay on every date

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    • quiet
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      #3
      Originally posted by spamofon
      nobody likes cheap fucks

      i pay on every date
      so do i
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      • smack
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        #4
        yeah, i've always just considered it a social courtesy to pay on all dates.
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        • Living For Today
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          #5
          I generally pay for the chicky unless she insists on paying for herself. Some chicks are touchy about that.

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          • Screaming
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            #6
            Originally posted by spamofon
            nobody likes cheap fucks

            i pay on every date
            thats the way to be in my opinion

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            • Ice
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              #7
              Originally posted by spamofon
              nobody likes cheap fucks

              i pay on every date
              Yup thats the way
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              • infecto
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                • May 2003
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                #8
                I always pay....current gf I have been going out with for 7months and have payed for 99% of what we have done together. It pays off though when she makes me food, gives me sex, or just does anything for me.

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                • xclusive
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                  • Apr 2004
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                  #9
                  I've always paid for my dates...It's a whole being the man thing...

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                  • Libertine
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                    • May 2002
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                    #10
                    I pay on every date, but girls who don't at least propose paying half sometimes can go fuck themselves. I don't mind paying, but spoiled chicks annoy the hell out of me.

                    I actually know one single a girl who, although she's the typical completely broke university student, insists on paying too whenever we go out. I think I should marry her
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                    • Kassidy
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                      • Jul 2003
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                      #11
                      If a girl doesn't at least offer to pay her share, that tells you a LOT about the kind of person she is.

                      On the other hand, there's no bigger turn off than a cheap ass guy or one who makes likes to point out that HE paid, like you owe him something in return. UGH

                      It's definitely a delicate subject with a fine line of social acceptability.


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                      • cocky
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                        #12
                        i make my wife pay
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                        • tranza
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                          #13
                          Originally posted by spamofon
                          nobody likes cheap fucks

                          i pay on every date

                          Samething here...
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                          • WiredGuy
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                            #14
                            If you're on a date, you should be paying.
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                            • decrypted
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                              #15
                              i pay on all dates

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                              • Project-Shadow
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                                #16
                                Originally posted by Kassidy
                                On the other hand, there's no bigger turn off than a cheap ass guy or one who makes likes to point out that HE paid, like you owe him something in return. UGH
                                Perfect evening involves your lady offering to pay her share, but you pay it of course. Everyone's a winner.

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                                • Head
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                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by Living For Today
                                  I generally pay for the chicky unless she insists on paying for herself. Some chicks are touchy about that.
                                  That would be an exception. But would try to pay for her.

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                                  • Libertine
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                                    • May 2002
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                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by Project-Shadow
                                    Perfect evening involves your lady offering to pay her share, but you pay it of course. Everyone's a winner.
                                    The perfect date
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                                    • pradaboy
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                                      #19
                                      I always pay for a lady... it's the right thing to do IMO
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                                      • Kassidy
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                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by Project-Shadow
                                        Perfect evening involves your lady offering to pay her share, but you pay it of course. Everyone's a winner.
                                        Yep.


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                                        • Persius
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                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by pradaboy
                                          I always pay for a lady... it's the right thing to do IMO

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                                          • Love Brokers
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                                            #22
                                            Radio Host Tom Lykus (speling?) will tell you to never pay for anyting!
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                                            • latinasojourn
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                                              #23
                                              in courting the female the class guy pays on ALL dates.

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                                              • MetaMan
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                                                #24
                                                the way it works with me is i dont ever let them pay, but the ones that sometimes will go out of there way to pay for things or even offer means alot, those girls i will give more to in the long run.

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                                                • PissFunny
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                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by punkworld
                                                  I pay on every date, but girls who don't at least propose paying half sometimes can go fuck themselves. I don't mind paying, but spoiled chicks annoy the hell out of me.

                                                  I actually know one single a girl who, although she's the typical completely broke university student, insists on paying too whenever we go out. I think I should marry her
                                                  i like this guy
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                                                  • PissFunny
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                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by cocky
                                                    i make my wife pay
                                                    i like this guy even more
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                                                    • flashfire
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                                                      #27
                                                      I let her pay for me on both

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                                                      • fl_prn_str
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                                                        #28
                                                        I would love to do that and be a gentlemen about the whole thing in general?.but it?s either just me or all of the women I?ve seen aren?t acting like ladies anymore. So I really don?t think ?just because it?s a tradition? applies anymore

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                                                        • Sparks
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                                                          #29
                                                          Pay for every date, even if they insist. Always have to be a gentleman!!!

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                                                          • Vitasoy
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                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by spamofon
                                                            nobody likes cheap fucks

                                                            i pay on every date
                                                            Same here, that's the way to do it.


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                                                            • DutchTeenCash
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                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by spamofon
                                                              nobody likes cheap fucks

                                                              i pay on every date

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                                                                #32
                                                                i pay on every date, but she better at least offer to pay for herself and say thank you.
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  Always pay.....unless shes filthy stinkijng rich..then order Filet and lobster and split for the mens room when its check time

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                                                                  • Spunky
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    We all pay one way or another

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                                                                    • Head
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by beemk
                                                                      i pay on every date, but she better at least offer to pay for herself and say thank you.
                                                                      Yes that would be good manners. That would tell you something about her if she didn't.

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                                                                      • Screaming
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        i thought you paid on every date?

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                                                                        • howard
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          i have been with my current (jewish) gf for almost a year. She is the cheapest person I ever met. Never fucken even offers. When she gets up in the am she goes into my money to buy herself coffee. Here's the sad part-- she makes 60k a year and gets 3k a month from her x husband. Her cheapness makes me hate her and I will be done with her within a few weeks. And before anyone blasts me I'm jewish so I can say it.
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                                                                          • howard
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            I think long term us men should pay for dinners and the girls should pay for breakfast or lunch...
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                                                                            • Indica
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              Im married, so even if he pays, Im paying.

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                                                                              • chodadog
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                Some women these days will go on and on about equality and how they feel patronized when men do things like paying for dinner or pulling their chair out for them, but god, you know if you doin't do it they're just going to go and bitch about it to all their friends. haha.

                                                                                Personally, i'm kinda old fashioned and i will always pay. Luckily, the girls i'm interested seem to enjoy the perks of chivalry.
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                                                                                • Doc911
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  trust me a real man pays on every date.

                                                                                  You always pay in some form or the other!


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                                                                                  • howard
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by Doc911
                                                                                    trust me a real man pays on every date.

                                                                                    You always pay in some form or the other!
                                                                                    on the first few dates yes i agree--after that the girls should cough up once in awhile

                                                                                    Nothing pisses us off more than chicks cash with cob webs all over it

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                                                                                    • Katty4
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by Kassidy
                                                                                      On the other hand, there's no bigger turn off than a cheap ass guy or one who makes likes to point out that HE paid, like you owe him something in return. UGH

                                                                                      It's definitely a delicate subject with a fine line of social acceptability.

                                                                                      Sooo true!!

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                                                                                      • Irrum
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        this is a really sensitive issue, everybody has a different opinion on it. For me, I will always offer and say thank you, but if I asked someone on a date I will insist on paying, I asked them, my treat.

                                                                                        by the way, nothing is a bigger turn off then a cheap man.

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                                                                                        • lib
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by Irrum
                                                                                          this is a really sensitive issue, everybody has a different opinion on it. For me, I will always offer and say thank you, but if I asked someone on a date I will insist on paying, I asked them, my treat.

                                                                                          by the way, nothing is a bigger turn off then a cheap man.
                                                                                          I've definitely found myself a little weirded out in that sort of situation.. where I was asked out by the girl, and then she insists on paying. Sort of a nice change, but still shocking.

                                                                                          Guess I'm an asshole though, because the last time that happened I left on a business trip a few days later, and never called her again (this was 6 weeks ago). I still owe her a nice dinner (she spent a good $300 on our dinner).

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                                                                                          • Semi-Retired-Dave
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                                                                                            • Apr 2004
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            You can be mean to them, be an asshole but make sure you pay on every date.

                                                                                            That is the worst thing you can do is pay your own and make her pay for hers. I have seen it happen many times and I think its so wrong.

                                                                                            Could just be me but I think a lot of people agree with me here on this one.
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                                                                                            • sixxxthsense
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              i pay on every fucking date!

                                                                                              Its the way i was tought,
                                                                                              and its what women expect!

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                                                                                              • Webasic
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                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                every date

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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  I fuck on first date

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