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Old 12-27-2005, 11:24 AM  
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Originally Posted by WEG Cory
Do not tell her that is all you do. Just tell her in passing one day that some clients have you code for adult websites. Tell her they pay so much better and you assume they make more money.

This way in the future if she notices you are only working with adult, you can say that they just pay better.

If you just tell her you deal with pornos, it will not sound good. People outside of the industry do not have the same understanding that we do. Most often times, it isn't about openess, but more about relating to it as a product. Her relating to the adult industry might consist of "Boogie Nights."
well said, reminds me of the "boiled frog": excert below:

They say that if you put a frog into a pot of boiling water,
it will leap out right away to escape the danger.
But, if you put a frog in a kettle that is filled with water that is cool and pleasant,
and then you gradually heat the kettle until it starts boiling,
the frog will not become aware of the threat until it is too late.
The frog's survival instincts are geared towards detecting sudden changes.
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