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Originally Posted by bdjuf
I am nothing but happy for you brother 
if only I was so fortunate
see it is SOOO funny
the way I got along with this recent girl, it scared the shit out of me...
I told my friend "bro, things are going so good that I am afraid she is a slut. this situation is reminding me alot of my ex"
simply because of my past experiences
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Then the only advice I would offer you man, is to not go into any relationship thinking the worst of someone. Go in with an open mind. It should be that way with girlfriends, boyfriends, or people you just want to be friends with.
Everyone is different and you can't judge people you want to have a successful relationship with based on your own bad experiences.
You'll never be happy with anyone if that's the case imo.
But make no mistake, that's not easy to do either, so I do empathize.
P.S. That's not to say you won't get hurt again, because who among us hasn't been hurt? But at least when you do find someone, you'll be able to talk openly and develop some trust.