buddyjuf

Okay, this is probably a thread a lot of you GFYers have been waiting for, and I will try not to disappoint.

I seem to have a problem with girls, and not just any problem, but a problem that is subconcious, that I cannot control, that is just inside of me.

The only girls I seem to truly be attracted to, and that I want to have a relationship with... they are all sluts.
Of course, I do not know this in the beginning, but for some reason, after I end up "settling down" with them, the truth comes out that they are banging dozens of guys behind my back.

For example, my first girlfriend was when i was 17, she was 16 at the time.
A cute armenian girl, short, good family values. However, there were rumors amungts my armenian friends that she was a slut, and when I confronted her with this, she assured me that its all rumors blah blah blah.
This girl had sex with one of my closest friends a few weeks before her and I went out. She also had sex with a bunch of other guys too before me.
Now this is where it gets interesting, I went out with this girl for 1 month, and she refused to have sex with me in order to make me believe that she is still a virgin. She constantly lied to me and cheated on me. I broke up with her simply because she was an annoying bitch, and I found out the real truth about all this a few months after...

My 2nd girlfriend, a russian jewish girl (the one I posted pictures of when she backstabbed me). I was 18 and so was she. We had sex 2 or so weeks into the relationship, and she was terrible at it. This one was a pathological liar, she would lie to me for the sake of lying. She had told me that she had only slept with 3 guys, 2 exs and 1 friend which she "Regretted". turns out it was more like 13 or so guys, out of which 2 were her ex's, (hey she was honest on that one!). This 25 year old guy would come pick her up every saturday to go to a motel and fuck, while she would tell me shes out clubbing with her friends. The way I found out about all this? her best friend had a crush on me and told me everything.

Now, through this same best friend I met another girl very recently which I had chemistry with. She seems so fucking innocent, told me she only had sex once, and she only fooled around with 3 ex's and that she doesnt like to fool around and what not with guys shes not going out with. So after a month of seeing eachother, we are still not going out, but things happen between us... and she is FUCKING good, I mean raelly fucking good, better than I have ever had. I talk to the same girl who told me about the other one, and she tells me to stay away, as she is as slutty as my other ex was... that she has been with her share of guys and that if I do not want to get hurt, to back off.
Oh, also, this 3rd girl, she refused to do "stuff" with me in the beginnings probably because, just like the 1st girl, wanted to keep the illusion of her being innocent.

wow... I don't even know what to say.
I even told the girl that I dont care how many guys a girl has been with, as long as she is honest with me.

all 3 of these girls, out of which are my 2 only girlfriends, and 1 Very close to be girlfriend, all 3 were sluts and I had no idea until I started getting very close to them. but I was for some reason REALLY interested in them to begin with!

what the hell is wrong with me? why is it that the only girls that seem to get me interested in a relationship are undercover sluts?

and not only that, I get my share of sex every once in a while from fuckfriends and what not, so I do not NEED a relationship for sex or anything, I just really liked these girls...


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