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Ok... in that case. You are spot on with the dinner. Nice place... nto too dressy... NEVER loud. You n eed to be able to talk. Thats a great second date. Third date.. I would recommend a nice show or something.... does she like culture or arts... or do you? I am not familiar with things in Canada but stuff like Cirque du Soleil is awesome in my opinion and women love that. Is she a mature 27 yr old or avg?
Also, the whole guy that lived off her.. that totally sucks. I think regardless of the money, the best way to win over a woman thats been burnt like that is just to be yourself. You seem like you are a secure person, both financially and personally. Women that have been through those types of bad relationships and generally are doing well for themselves just want to feel that there is a person around them that will hold their own and pay for dinner. You know what I mean?
Later on of course.. I would DEFINITELY recommend travel. It is such good bonding. Seriously though.... having been through a situation where a guy has done that to me and being the same age.... if she is ANYTHING like me, I would say the most important thing is to just be secure around her and decisive without coming across as overly controlling or needy.
Above all... make sure she feels like you are giving her space to be a person in her own right.. which she is obviously but being just out of a marriage with a douchebag, she will need that.
I hope all this makes sense.
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