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  • Lee
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    • Aug 2002
    • 2977

    #351
    No words we say can possibly fill the void, but you really are in our thoughts.

    Oh and a big thank you to the mod who deleted the trolls.

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    • jonesy
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      • Jan 2003
      • 6688

      #352
      Sarah

      i hope this helps.

      It is fairly common for people in your situation to feel somewhat abandoned or alone - know that it isn't the case, and that friends and family are there for you - they might be silent because they just can't think of anything to say and want to give you as much space and support as possible to grieve in your own way. everyone is feeling the same loss.

      sometimes they can develop a sense of guilt for not being able to say anything that can make a difference.

      This guilt can compound to the point where people close to you might actually pull away, or seem to, in your time of need, because they are simply embarrassed and uncomfortable and feel guilty that they have nothing to say...either that or they will say what they think is a good rationalization that will put things in perspective, which I'm sure you will at some point get pretty tired of in spite of your appreciation of their attempts to help

      These platitudes may get to be so tiresome that you might begin to pull away from well-wishers to avoid such discussion, which is totally ok - most people will interpret this as your wish to be left alone or not speak about it...


      My condolences to you and your families.
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      • pushpills
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        • Jan 2004
        • 3700

        #353
        Very sad to hear, a real tragedy. My thoughts are with you hun.

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        • Jensen
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          • Apr 2001
          • 3790

          #354
          just read the post and to be hounest, I don't know what to write so I'll just keep it simple.. R.I.P. Marc

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          • Harmon
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            • Mar 2004
            • 20012

            #355
            That's horrible. I am very sorry for your loss.
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            • sean416
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              • Feb 2004
              • 3633

              #356
              My most sincere condolences. Keep your head up sweety.

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              • MickeyG
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                • May 2004
                • 4134

                #357
                what a horrible thing to happen, im very sorry for your loss.

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                • sherie
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                  • Feb 2002
                  • 7020

                  #358
                  My heart goes out to you Sarah. I know how much you loved your husband. I don't know what else to say, other than my thoughts and prayers are with you and if you ever need someone to talk to please feel free to get in touch.

                  All my love to you and your families. You are a strong person and I know you will prevail. Of course these are only words, but you will get through this and hopefully not alone.

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                  • Far-L
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                    • Feb 2002
                    • 6065

                    #359
                    Condolences. May the joy you shared keep your spirit together in the days ahead, when you will need stregnth to deal most, and forever bring love to your heart.
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                    • fantasycontent
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                      • Apr 2002
                      • 2104

                      #360
                      wow i am really sorry to hear about that....my thoughts and prayers go out to you!!
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                      • Steen2
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                        • Feb 2004
                        • 7662

                        #361
                        Sarah, I am so sorry to hear this.

                        My best wishes to you and your family for this Thanksgiving.
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                        • hilly
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                          • Feb 2004
                          • 867

                          #362
                          Sorry, and my best wishes.

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                          • TheGoldenChild
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                            • May 2002
                            • 6940

                            #363
                            I am at a loss for words-
                            I hope you find peace and comfort throughout this ordeal.
                            I am choked up reading about your tragic loss...

                            you'll be in my prayers

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                            • aSStig
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                              • Apr 2004
                              • 1102

                              #364
                              my condolence Sarah . . . . .

                              i feel sorry to hear that . . . .
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                              • TheGoldenChild
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                                • May 2002
                                • 6940

                                #365
                                Originally posted by sextoyking
                                Sarah,

                                I just got in the store - sent you an email, hope you got it??

                                Dang, I am sooooo sorry for the loss of your husband. You are across the pond and not near your family right now. I know you loved him very very much. Gosh for that to happen at 45 is such a dire shame

                                I will find your # and call you soon, please let me know if I can do anything at all.. If you need to fly home now, we will take care of it.

                                I think your voip # is at the office, will call rick, if not call me if you want too..

                                To one of the best people I have ever had the pleasure of working with in over 10 yrs online - Sorry my love.

                                You are a real "mensche" Todd.
                                That's an incredibly generous act of kindness.

                                Hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving-


                                Todd

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                                • mary34d
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                                  • Aug 2003
                                  • 3358

                                  #366
                                  i know i have be off the boards lately, but i want to help, let me know how. (i am not good with death)


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                                  • silent moan
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                                    • Nov 2003
                                    • 1908

                                    #367
                                    sad to hear that.....


                                    my condolence and prayers are with you.....

                                    be strong Sarah

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                                    • AWW - Kevin
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                                      • Jan 2002
                                      • 2353

                                      #368
                                      I am so very sorry to hear that !

                                      The most sincere condolences from me !


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                                      • Spunky
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                                        • Jun 2002
                                        • 133978

                                        #369
                                        My deepest condolences Sarah

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                                        • BVF
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                                          • Jan 2002
                                          • 13975

                                          #370
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                                          • OzMan
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                                            • Sep 2003
                                            • 9162

                                            #371
                                            Sarah,

                                            Although I haven't met you I know that you are more than strong enough to deal with this loss even if it feels like your whole world just caved in right now. He will always be with you and you can see him in your dreams.

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                                            • SinBucks
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                                              • Oct 2004
                                              • 331

                                              #372
                                              My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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                                              • Jay_StandAhead
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                                                • Jul 2002
                                                • 3103

                                                #373
                                                deepest condolences sarah

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                                                • Jer
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                                                  • Feb 2001
                                                  • 10601

                                                  #374
                                                  OMG, Sarah, I'm so sorry

                                                  My condolences

                                                  Rest in Peace Marc

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                                                  • shermo

                                                    #375
                                                    I am so sorry. Please feel better and always remember the love you 2 shared. You are a great wife for being by his side at all times.

                                                    My condolences.

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                                                    • WebGemsHosting
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                                                      • Dec 2003
                                                      • 98

                                                      #376
                                                      Im so sorry for your loss, Sarah.
                                                      My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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                                                      • Kristian
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                                                        • Aug 2003
                                                        • 3733

                                                        #377
                                                        Sarah,

                                                        Those are the saddest words I have ever read. I know you only as a name on gfy and yet I'm shocked and upset for your loss. Right now you need friends and family to help you. I hope you can go to them, or they can come to you.

                                                        I'm not an especially religious person, but I'll say a prayer for you tonight. I'm so sorry for your loss.

                                                        Kristian

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                                                        • Ron_Artest
                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                          • Nov 2004
                                                          • 6

                                                          #378
                                                          Sorry to hear that but now that makes you available. Would it be to soon to ask you out on some wild orgy?

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                                                          • Femme Fa'tale
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                                                            • Nov 2004
                                                            • 541

                                                            #379
                                                            "Courage, it would seem, is nothing less than the power to overcome danger, misfortune, fear, injustice, while continuing to affirm inwardly that life with all its sorrows is good; that everything is meaningful even if in a sense beyond our understanding; and that there is always tomorrow."

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                                                            • Marcus Aurelius
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                                                              • Apr 2003
                                                              • 14809

                                                              #380
                                                              Originally posted by Ron_Artest
                                                              Sorry to hear that but now that makes you available. Would it be to soon to ask you out on some wild orgy?
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                                                              • LittleMack
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                                                                • Oct 2003
                                                                • 4645

                                                                #381
                                                                Your family are in our thoughts and prayers!!
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                                                                • Evil Chris
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                                                                  • Dec 2001
                                                                  • 13248

                                                                  #382
                                                                  Sarah, I had learned of this on another board, but only read your post for the first time now.

                                                                  Heartfelt condolences from both Funbrunette and myself.
                                                                  You poor girl... Please be strong if you can.


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                                                                  • Bob Saget
                                                                    So Fucking Banned
                                                                    • Nov 2004
                                                                    • 312

                                                                    #383
                                                                    take care girl!

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                                                                    • Mutt
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                                                                      • Sep 2002
                                                                      • 34431

                                                                      #384
                                                                      as somebody else said above Sarah I only know you as a name on GFY and that you work for Todd but my heart is heavy for you nonetheless - and for you husband. sincere condolense to all concerned.



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                                                                        • Nov 2003
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                                                                        #385
                                                                        My deepest condolences to you and Marc's family. May he rest in peace.

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                                                                        • videoxpix
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                                                                          • Nov 2003
                                                                          • 267

                                                                          #386
                                                                          Heartfelt condolences to you & Mark's family. You are not alone.
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                                                                          • WebTitan
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                                                                            • Mar 2003
                                                                            • 5114

                                                                            #387
                                                                            wow, that is a shame...i wish you well

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                                                                            • TheButcher
                                                                              So Fucking Banned
                                                                              • Oct 2004
                                                                              • 811

                                                                              #388
                                                                              I am very sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace. If there is anyway I can help please do not hesitate to let me know.

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                                                                                #389
                                                                                My heart goes out to you.
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                                                                                • quiet
                                                                                  we'll miss you our friend. RIP
                                                                                  • Sep 2001
                                                                                  • 25115

                                                                                  #390
                                                                                  this is the saddest thing i've ever read on this board. i'm so sorry Sarah.
                                                                                  we'll miss you our friend. RIP

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                                                                                  • JakeR
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                                                                                    • May 2001
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                                                                                    #391
                                                                                    You have our prayers sarah
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                                                                                    • Easton
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                                                                                      • Sep 2002
                                                                                      • 9825

                                                                                      #392
                                                                                      my sincere condolences during this tough time
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                                                                                      • Odin88
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                                                                                        • Jul 2003
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                                                                                        #393
                                                                                        Sorry to hear indeed. Wish you well.

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                                                                                        • Braincash Fred
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                                                                                          • Jul 2002
                                                                                          • 1589

                                                                                          #394
                                                                                          Everytime I read a sad story like this it makes me feel that I should enjoy every second of my life, my friend and my familly.
                                                                                          You never knows when something bad like this can happen and change your world...

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                                                                                          • quiet
                                                                                            we'll miss you our friend. RIP
                                                                                            • Sep 2001
                                                                                            • 25115

                                                                                            #395
                                                                                            Originally posted by Braincash Fred
                                                                                            Everytime I read a sad story like this it makes me feel that I should enjoy every second of my life, my friend and my familly.
                                                                                            You never knows when something bad like this can happen and change your world...
                                                                                            i completely agree.
                                                                                            we'll miss you our friend. RIP

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                                                                                            • brav
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                                                                                              • Oct 2001
                                                                                              • 211

                                                                                              #396
                                                                                              I am so sorry about your loss sarah. Sounds like it was so sudden. My prayers will go out to you and your family.

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                                                                                              • MuleScrote
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                                                                                                • Dec 2002
                                                                                                • 4601

                                                                                                #397


                                                                                                Very sad news indeed.

                                                                                                All I can do is send my love and wish you the strength to cope with such a tremendous loss.
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                                                                                                • Bobbiekey
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                                                                                                  • Apr 2002
                                                                                                  • 142

                                                                                                  #398
                                                                                                  Sarah, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. There are no words that I can say that would ease your pain. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. My heart goes out to you. *hugs*

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                                                                                                  • Ron
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                                                                                                    • Feb 2002
                                                                                                    • 408

                                                                                                    #399
                                                                                                    Sarah,

                                                                                                    We never spoke eachother, we dont know eachother and i didnt know Marc. I even dont post here much but i wanted to give my deepest condolences to you and marc's family.

                                                                                                    I know how much pain yoiu have now. I saw my father dying for my eyes when i whas 20, and 2 weeks later my girlfriend died in a car accident. Its now 15 years ago but still feels like it happened yesterday.

                                                                                                    One day you will wake up and notice that the sad feeling is replaced with a feeling of rest and good memories. This takes time, a very long time. Some people will say after a cpl of weeks/month to get over it now but thats completly nonsense. Theres no time for, some do it in a year, some in 10 years and some even longer. But you will always miss them.

                                                                                                    Only thing i can say sarah is, take all the time you need to recover, even when it takes a very long time.

                                                                                                    My english isnt that perfect but i hope its to read and understandable...
                                                                                                    Again, my deepest condelences to you and marcs family...

                                                                                                    Take care,

                                                                                                    Ron
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                                                                                                    • minimouse
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                                                                                                      • Jun 2002
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                                                                                                      #400
                                                                                                      Hi Sarah,

                                                                                                      Were deeply sorry for your loss.

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