I'll just have to mention the new blog aggregator we'll be launching in a few days - the beta version is available at
http://planet.topadultblogs.com/ . If you're interested, you can sign up
here.
Please note, that the URL is going to be just (
www.)topadultblogs.com when we launch it, so there's no need for a recip link yet.
BTW we also use adultblogindex with our blog, and haven't had any problems. But a little variety never hurt anyone...