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  • hydro
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    • Dec 2003
    • 4216

    #1

    Are you going to require a prenuptial agreement?

    When you get married, will you require your fiance to sign a prenuptial agreement? For me it would be a top priority, i think ive worked hard for what i have and i wouldn't risk losing 1/2 over a divorce that would probably start with a stupid fight.
  • SleazyDream
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    • Jul 2001
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    #2
    stuff is just that - stuff.

    i don't think i'd want to marry with a prenub in place to be honest - it's like saying it won't last, so why bother in the first place.
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    • .:St Ides:.
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      • Jul 2004
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      #3
      nah my lady sticks by my side. fuck all that shit

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      • FreeFastHost
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        • Oct 2001
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        #4
        I would marry with a prenup for sure.

        Not because I think it wouldn't last, but because if she ever divorced me, I don't want her next guy to have my money.

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        • hydro
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          • Dec 2003
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          #5
          Originally posted by SleazyDream
          stuff is just that - stuff.

          i don't think i'd want to marry with a prenub in place to be honest - it's like saying it won't last, so why bother in the first place.
          Yea ive thought about that, but if my fiance refused to sign a prenum is saying she would only want me for financial reasons and doesnt expect to advance in her own carrear.

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          • WickedVenus
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            • Aug 2004
            • 3877

            #6
            Originally posted by SleazyDream
            stuff is just that - stuff.

            i don't think i'd want to marry with a prenub in place to be honest - it's like saying it won't last, so why bother in the first place.
            I agree! Me and my husband did not sign one at all!
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            • emthree
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              • Jun 2003
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              #7
              dont want to
              but would have to

              Nothing is forever.

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              • Sly
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                #8
                Its really a catch 22 any way you look at it.
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                • Steen2
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                  • Feb 2004
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                  #9
                  I dunno

                  I don't really believe in marriage right now.
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                  • quiet
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                    #10
                    absolutely, and there is no catch 22.
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                    • emthree
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                      • Jun 2003
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                      #11
                      Originally posted by WickedVenus
                      I agree! Me and my husband did not sign one at all!
                      a prenup is far better than having to make you "dissapear" when things go sour

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                      • SpikeHeel
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                        • Oct 2003
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                        #12
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                        • X37375787

                          #13
                          hell no. fuck prenups. marriage is something that is meant for a lifetime. and should it not work out, it's her good right to take my shit for me having been so dumb about entering the wrong marriage in the first place. but that's never gonna happen.

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                          • hydro
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                            • Dec 2003
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                            #14
                            Originally posted by Equinox
                            hell no. fuck prenups. marriage is something that is meant for a lifetime. and should it not work out, it's her good right to take my shit for me having been so dumb about entering the wrong marriage in the first place. but that's never gonna happen.
                            nothing lasts forever, divorce rates in america and across europe are pretty high.

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                            • WickedVenus
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                              • Aug 2004
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                              #15
                              Originally posted by emthree
                              a prenup is far better than having to make you "dissapear" when things go sour
                              I gueese me and My husband trust each other. If things were to go sour for some reason, Its not like i would be in a sore position if we had to split things.
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                              • SmutGiant
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                                • Oct 2003
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                                #16
                                I'll be 110% sure to get a prenup when/if i ever marry. All females are evil

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                                • hydro
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                                  • Dec 2003
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                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by SmutGiant
                                  I'll be 110% sure to get a prenup when/if i ever marry. All females are evil
                                  not all, its just that woman for the most part think with thier emotions and not logic. They many know they probably don't deserve 1/2 of everything the guy she's divorcing owns but her emotions tell her to seek revenge against him and what better way than taking 1/2 of what he's worked his entire life for.

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                                  • Repetitive Monkey
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                                    • Feb 2004
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                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by Equinox
                                    hell no. fuck prenups. marriage is something that is meant for a lifetime. and should it not work out, it's her good right to take my shit for me having been so dumb about entering the wrong marriage in the first place. but that's never gonna happen.
                                    Wait, if a marriage isn't working out, the male is the stupid part and deserves to have half his possessions taken away?

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                                    • maja
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                                      • Feb 2003
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                                      #19
                                      oh geez, i never had one the first time and I did lose out ( I was the one with property and $)... but not half though, i guess I was lucky in that he didn't care about the material goods...

                                      Now I realisd to marry someone richer than I!

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                                      • maja
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                                        #20
                                        and i were to do it again, I would not have a prenup... again.

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                                        • smack
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                                          • Mar 2002
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                                          #21
                                          yes i will. without a doubt. life can cahgne too much, gotta protect your ass. and your assets.
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                                          • tical
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                                            • Feb 2002
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                                            #22
                                            trust funds

                                            no real need for a prenup if you know what you're doing
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                                            • xclusive
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                                              • Apr 2004
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                                              #23
                                              I have a completely open financial relationship with my wife what's mine is hers and what's hers is mine...

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                                              • Snake Doctor
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                                                • Mar 2001
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                                                #24
                                                Absolutely going to have a prenup.

                                                I can't stand the thought of paying someone a monthly stipend just because they happened to be married to me once.

                                                All community property will of course be split down the middle, houses, cars, joint savings accounts etc.
                                                But there will be absolutely no alimony and she gets none of my business or individual retirement accounts, and I don't want any of her salary or accounts she has in her name either.
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                                                • Shortbread
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                                                  • Dec 2003
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                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                  stuff is just that - stuff.

                                                  i don't think i'd want to marry with a prenub in place to be honest - it's like saying it won't last, so why bother in the first place.
                                                  Exactly....

                                                  Originally posted by hydro
                                                  not all, its just that woman for the most part think with thier emotions and not logic. They many know they probably don't deserve 1/2 of everything the guy she's divorcing owns but her emotions tell her to seek revenge against him and what better way than taking 1/2 of what he's worked his entire life for.

                                                  And have you ever thought that many women make more money than their partners? My father did not contribute one single penny to the house my parents live in, nor did he contribute one penny to bills or groceries or my tuition for school or to raising me. Did my mom sign a pre nup? No!
                                                  Is it likely that I and many other women can make or go make more money than their significant others....Yes!

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                                                  • BoNgHiTtA
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                                                    #26
                                                    Prenups are for people with existing wealth. And I don't mean a few 100,000's either.

                                                    If your going to get a prenup, why bother? I didn't get one, I am not rich, and I love my wife. If we split up and she needs some help, I would give it to her.

                                                    If your marrying someone you have to worry about, then your doing the wrong thing already.

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                                                    • Repetitive Monkey
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                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by BoNgHiTtA
                                                      Prenups are for people with existing wealth. And I don't mean a few 100,000's either.

                                                      If your going to get a prenup, why bother? I didn't get one, I am not rich, and I love my wife. If we split up and she needs some help, I would give it to her.

                                                      If your marrying someone you have to worry about, then your doing the wrong thing already.
                                                      Falling in love is a chemical reaction that lasts for ~six years.

                                                      But the point is that you never know nowadays, no matter how much you are in love and no matter how much you say that you would never consider a divorce.

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                                                      • Repetitive Monkey
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                                                        • Feb 2004
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                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by Repetitive Monkey
                                                        Falling in love is a chemical reaction that lasts for ~six years.
                                                        Maximum.
                                                        Originally posted by Repetitive Monkey
                                                        But the point is that you never know nowadays, no matter how much you are in love and no matter how much you say that you would never consider a divorce.
                                                        Reasons: Because there is absolutely nothing holding anyone back from getting a divorce in today's society. When the love fades, and your genes make you fall in love with others (it's perfectly reasonable and even highly desirable according to evolutionary psychology), your marriage doesn't stand much of a chance unless you both have an understanding of continuing the marriage out of convenience, stigma, and/or because you have become good friends.

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                                                        • Jace
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                                                          • Jan 2004
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                                                          #29
                                                          my wife and I had almost nothing when we met...i was a coke addict who dealt about 3 ounces a week just to support my 1.5 ounce a week habit...and she was a stripper in lexington ky, no money to be made

                                                          everything we have we worked hard together to get....so, no prenup was needed...

                                                          i would never require one from her anyway...we love each other

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                                                          • Holly
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                                                            • Jun 2003
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                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by Repetitive Monkey
                                                            Falling in love is a chemical reaction that lasts for ~six years.


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                                                            • shermo

                                                              #31
                                                              No prenup for me. If I required a prenup, I wouldn't bother getting married in the first place. No matter how much wealth I have, My wife will work and we will each have our seperate savings accounts/investments that are strictly our own.

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                                                              • phogirl69
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                                                                • Jul 2001
                                                                • 3330

                                                                #32
                                                                Well, my man right now barely has any money/posessions so it's not really an issue. I am not a gold digger so that's not a quality that I look for in someone. As for me, I don't have a ton of money, but I do have lots, lots more than him, but if we ever got divorced I doubt he would want any from me, because that's not the kind of person he is.

                                                                And if I was with a rich man and we divorced because he cheated on me or something similar, I would hate his guts so much that I would SPIT on his money. I would not even give him the satisfaction of thinking that I would even need his money. I would rather work at a fast food restaurant than giving him that power.

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                                                                • skytop201
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                                                                  • Mar 2004
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  First of all if it flys,fucks or drives its better to lease
                                                                  Second if you do get married just make sure everything is in place in a proper trust before then there is no need for a prenup

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                                                                  • Babagirls
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    im in the middle of sueing a resturant (slip & fall and hurt my neck, goin to physcial therapy, doped on meds, etc etc) and my lawyer is thinkin i'm gonna get somewhere in the ballpark of $100k+ for a settlement. if so, then i'm definaly getting a pre-nup.




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                                                                    • Jakke PNG
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                                                                      • Nov 2001
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      I wouldn't marry without one.
                                                                      If the marrige lasts, it's meaningless..
                                                                      if it doesn't last, you're fucked when she takes half while banging a 20 year old poolboy and becomes his sugardaddy with your money.
                                                                      ..and I'm off.

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                                                                      • Jakke PNG
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                                                                        • Nov 2001
                                                                        • 20306

                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by Babagirls
                                                                        im in the middle of sueing a resturant (slip & fall and hurt my neck, goin to physcial therapy, doped on meds, etc etc) and my lawyer is thinkin i'm gonna get somewhere in the ballpark of $100k+ for a settlement. if so, then i'm definaly getting a pre-nup.
                                                                        You're making a restaurant pay $100k because you were clumsy and fell over.
                                                                        Long live american court system...
                                                                        Fucking ridiculous.
                                                                        ..and I'm off.

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                                                                        • Jer
                                                                          God is Brazilian
                                                                          • Feb 2001
                                                                          • 10601

                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by TeenGodFather
                                                                          You're making a restaurant pay $100k because you were clumsy and fell over.
                                                                          Long live american court system...
                                                                          Fucking ridiculous.
                                                                          Yep.

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                                                                          • kush
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                                                                            • Feb 2001
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by Babagirls
                                                                            im in the middle of sueing a resturant (slip & fall and hurt my neck, goin to physcial therapy, doped on meds, etc etc) and my lawyer is thinkin i'm gonna get somewhere in the ballpark of $100k+ for a settlement. if so, then i'm definaly getting a pre-nup.
                                                                            What was the circumstances surrounding this?
                                                                            Someone forgot to put down a wet floor sign??
                                                                            So you get 100 grand?

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                                                                            • hydro
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                                                                              • Dec 2003
                                                                              • 4216

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by Shortbread
                                                                              Exactly....




                                                                              And have you ever thought that many women make more money than their partners? My father did not contribute one single penny to the house my parents live in, nor did he contribute one penny to bills or groceries or my tuition for school or to raising me. Did my mom sign a pre nup? No!
                                                                              Is it likely that I and many other women can make or go make more money than their significant others....Yes!
                                                                              Of course there are woman who make more thier partners, my sister makes at least twice as much as her husband does and so dues my aunt. Prenups have nothing to do with what gender you are but are put in place to protect what youve worked hard for your whole life in case someday a stupid fight starts. The fight could range from anything like she thinks you don't want to see her or she thinks your cheating and becomes jealous. It could go both ways.

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                                                                              • detoxed
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                                                                                • Jan 2003
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                If she has more money than me... I will pray that the words prenupital are never uttered... if I have more than her she is signing the fucking thing

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                                                                                • Sosa
                                                                                  In Tushy Land
                                                                                  • Oct 2002
                                                                                  • 40149

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by detoxed
                                                                                  If she has more money than me... I will pray that the words prenupital are never uttered... if I have more than her she is signing the fucking thing

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