Originally Posted by Sly

You don't have very good tact, but I do understand what you're trying to say. Maybe I am the only one who understands what you're trying to say because I was at that point once in my life and needed the kick you're trying to give. Eventually I gave myself that kick.

Now as to how relevant what you're trying to say is to Sarah's case, I really have no idea because I don't know Sarah, so I am not going to comment or even try to speculate.