Originally Posted by iwantchixx

first things first, go for full custody NOW.

Because most likely once she settles in she'll come take the kids.

Secondly, man. I don't even know how I would deal with that. I did it to my ex.. left her then went with another girl and our son stayed with ehr, but we left on terms.. not just fucking off and dumping the kid on her. I am very active in his life.

Please, for the sake of your kids, get full custody ASAP because she'll rip them from you soon enough and the those poor kids will be hurting again.