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  • je_rome
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    • Jul 2005
    • 6846

    #101
    it definitely is! well, I suppose it depends on your partner, whether she will consider it as cheating or not. As for me, I don't think it's good.
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    • RogerV
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      • Jul 2002
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      #102
      Originally posted by MaskTVMaura
      I think we should all just admit that we like to fuck around! I like to fuck around, I've always liked to fuck around, my guy likes to fuck around, I like to fuck people who like to fuck around -- variety is the spice of life!

      What I think is so funny is that everybody pretends they don't fuck around -- when most people would (if they thought they'd never get caught)!

      Admit it -- we're all horny sexual creatures who like to fuck new people every once in a while!

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      • d00t
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        • Sep 2002
        • 3766

        #103
        you're not on this earth to fuck as many bitches as you can, you're here to find a mate, reproduce and care for it's upbringing to make sure your genes are passed on and taken care of.

        THAT IS THE MEANING AND GOAL OF LIFE - TO REPRODUCE AND MAKE SURE YOUR OFFSPRING GROWS UP STRONG WITH YOU AND YOUR PARTNER'S SUPPORT.

        So to all you professional daters, femanists and haters - go enjoy your 3somes, orgy gangbangs and constant std tests. It might work for you, but there are some things more important in life than seeing how many people you can screw in an hour.

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        • jackie1
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          • Oct 2005
          • 137

          #104
          Originally posted by d00t
          you're not on this earth to fuck as many bitches as you can, you're here to find a mate, reproduce and care for it's upbringing to make sure your genes are passed on and taken care of.

          THAT IS THE MEANING AND GOAL OF LIFE - TO REPRODUCE AND MAKE SURE YOUR OFFSPRING GROWS UP STRONG WITH YOU AND YOUR PARTNER'S SUPPORT.

          So to all you professional daters, femanists and haters - go enjoy your 3somes, orgy gangbangs and constant std tests. It might work for you, but there are some things more important in life than seeing how many people you can screw in an hour.

          People need to frame this post and hang it on their refrigerators. This is sooooo true. My s/o says EXACTLY the same thing and I couldn't agree more.

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          • Funbrunette
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            • May 2002
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            #105
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            • nastyboy1
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              • Sep 2004
              • 257

              #106
              Originally posted by jackie1
              People need to frame this post and hang it on their refrigerators. This is sooooo true. My s/o says EXACTLY the same thing and I couldn't agree more.
              Congrats! That makes you and your s/o two of the most narrow minded, intollerant people on the board where would you like your prize sent?
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              • nastyboy1
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                • Sep 2004
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                #107
                Originally posted by J-$
                well that nastyboy dude and that swinger bitch sure did score a few points. props for that. thing is, i dont cheat either, i have self control over myself. but i would be mad as shit if i went through all this trouble to get cheated on. your point of views seem to take away any form of commitment; should we ban marriage? should we have kids with different partners? i think nots; may be its me that's wrong. anyhow i guess its ok for a swinger couple to "cheat" on each other; same principle applies over a faithful couple. and thats when its wrong for ANY (man or woman) of the two to cheat. but you still defended your points very well, although i have not been hurt in the past, nor am i a jealous guy; im actually more independent than anything, but it has served me well thru my relations to this day. take care now.
                Morning J-$! Look..I appreciate your stand and if monogamy serves you well you should stick to it. My goal was simply to broaded peoples minds a bit around here. There is no one way for every marriage or relationship. How would everyone here like it if we were made to live by the rules of the church?

                My wife and I love and respect eachother on every level. We just experience one part of our lives differently than other people. That in and of itself doesn't make it wrong...just different. I am just amazed that people...especially here...would fault our choice when we have a great mariage.

                I am not asking anyone to conform to what works for us..dont ask me to conform to what works for you.

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                • sweetcuties
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                  • Feb 2002
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                  #108
                  Originally posted by Matt Collins
                  Its not cheating if it involves strippers..or hookers...or occurs in a different area code...

                  Matt
                  This shit is so funny

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                  • GlydeGirl
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                    • Feb 2005
                    • 1516

                    #109
                    Originally posted by toddler
                    I'm guessing you are A: male B: weigh in around 300lbs, or C: carrying every STD known to man.

                    And no, we're not 'all horny sexual creatures who like to fuck new people every once in a while'.
                    Well, you're definitely NOT a psychic, toddler!

                    I'm 28 year old fit woman -- girl-next-door look, and I use condoms EVERY TIME I HAVE SEX with anybody who IS NOT my primary partner. Only idiots who fuck around without using protection get STDs... maybe YOU could tell us about that! Oh wait.. you're probably the type of guy who's too afraid to even get tested for STD's (and yet probably also complains about wearing condoms... LOL)

                    Hmmm... and you are NOT a horny sexual creature who likes to fuck new people every once in a while? So... how many sexual partners have you had in your lifetime... just 1? That would totally explain why you're so frustrated when you see someone like me who gets everything I want in bed without burning in hell for it or contracting any easily avoidable STDs.

                    I'd wish you a nice life... but it seems that you'd much rather be miserable and unfulfilled!

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                    • sicone
                      Retired
                      • Jan 2004
                      • 18453

                      #110
                      I didnt watch Oprah, but I say no.. its not cheating

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                      • Screaming
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                        • Feb 2004
                        • 18972

                        #111
                        Oprah is an idiot

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                        • detoxed
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                          • Jan 2003
                          • 17798

                          #112
                          Originally posted by thinkx
                          Just wondering why would y hubby go to a stripclub if he can get a lapdance from his wife?

                          Because married men want to see OTHER women naked as well If you dont, you havent been married long enough.

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                          • Pleasurepays
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                            • Aug 2002
                            • 11913

                            #113
                            i like how everyone has "self control" and procliams themselves in the moral right.

                            maybe you also have a lower than normal sex drive? you're insecure? too shy? horribly unnatractive? erectile dysfunction? heigene issues? have low self esteem and can't approach girls or girls are not attracted to you? maybe you are just an idiot that gets shot down all the time by the opposite sex? maybe you weigh 300 pounds and smell bad?

                            the list could go on forever.

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                            • Kimmykim
                              bitchslapping zebras!!!!!
                              • Jun 2001
                              • 16015

                              #114
                              Wow, I'm still laughing over some of the replies in this thread...

                              "cheating" is defined by the people in a relationship. Of course there are other things that make a relationship work, besides fidelity. Things like trust, truthfulness, communication, you know, those other words that define a person's character.

                              Girls should be soft, and they should smell good. Who doesn't (except for the obvious, which would be gay men) like to be around girls? I've probably been to more strip joints that most of the guys in this thread -- with people from the business and with people I've dated. Do I think it's a big deal? No. Of course I also realize that while some guys may not have it figured out, they are just dollars when a stripper looks at them.

                              Yes, I know there are strippers that add a little extra in the champagne room, and yes, I know there are strippers that will end up back at the hotel with guys that come into the club.

                              At the end of the day, in a good relationship, you know what and where the boundaries are, because you've communicated the truth of how you feel about things with your partner, and vice versa. Then you either trust your partner or you don't. And if you don't, there's nothing in your relationship that a stripper can break, since it's already broken.

                              I don't really understand the swinger lifestyle, more in the fact that it's not something I would choose personally, but I don't condescend to it and I don't judge it. To each his own, and as long as both halves of the relationship are in agreement on the boundaries, then hey, it's no one else's business if you ask me.

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                              • Funbrunette
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                                • May 2002
                                • 4834

                                #115
                                Originally posted by detoxed
                                Because married men want to see OTHER women naked as well If you dont, you havent been married long enough.
                                ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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                                • Roald
                                  SecretFriends.com
                                  • May 2001
                                  • 27910

                                  #116
                                  Originally posted by Kimmykim
                                  Wow, I'm still laughing over some of the replies in this thread...

                                  "cheating" is defined by the people in a relationship. Of course there are other things that make a relationship work, besides fidelity. Things like trust, truthfulness, communication, you know, those other words that define a person's character.

                                  Girls should be soft, and they should smell good. Who doesn't (except for the obvious, which would be gay men) like to be around girls? I've probably been to more strip joints that most of the guys in this thread -- with people from the business and with people I've dated. Do I think it's a big deal? No. Of course I also realize that while some guys may not have it figured out, they are just dollars when a stripper looks at them.

                                  Yes, I know there are strippers that add a little extra in the champagne room, and yes, I know there are strippers that will end up back at the hotel with guys that come into the club.

                                  At the end of the day, in a good relationship, you know what and where the boundaries are, because you've communicated the truth of how you feel about things with your partner, and vice versa. Then you either trust your partner or you don't. And if you don't, there's nothing in your relationship that a stripper can break, since it's already broken.

                                  I don't really understand the swinger lifestyle, more in the fact that it's not something I would choose personally, but I don't condescend to it and I don't judge it. To each his own, and as long as both halves of the relationship are in agreement on the boundaries, then hey, it's no one else's business if you ask me.

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                                  I've been to soo many stripjoints lately that its starting to get boring sometimes. Do I tell my girl I went..Yeah, does she care...NO. Why not? cause she trusts me and knows its just entertainment for me.


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                                  • Kimmykim
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                                    • Jun 2001
                                    • 16015

                                    #117
                                    Originally posted by QuaShe
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                                    I've been to soo many stripjoints lately that its starting to get boring sometimes. Do I tell my girl I went..Yeah, does she care...NO. Why not? cause she trusts me and knows its just entertainment for me.
                                    Haha, I hear you on the boring part.

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                                    • J-$
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                                      • Mar 2005
                                      • 2090

                                      #118
                                      I think the moral of the story is CHEAT on your partner because he/she will too!

                                      nah really, the moral is, going to the strip club isnt cheating. actually it helps you not to cheat

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                                      • BigRod
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                                        • Apr 2005
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                                        #119
                                        I've had this fight more than once in my life...DAMN
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                                        • boneprone
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                                          • Jan 2001
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                                          #120
                                          So am I the only one here that thinks a bad or "boring" night at the stripclub is one in which no soilage occurs??

                                          I mean if you are in Vegas, and pay all that cash for a dance you better get some soilage.. Some stains.. Something..

                                          Or else whats the point right?



                                          I mean my bud Son Of Rage wears Swim Shorts to the Club for this very reason..

                                          #1 you feel much much more of that VEGAS GRIND with ultra thin swimshorts with no undies.

                                          #2 Its an easy wipe and clean after soilage.

                                          Last edited by boneprone; 11-02-2005, 11:29 AM.

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                                          • boneprone
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                                            #121
                                            and

                                            #3 The Chicks Dig it.

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                                            • GlydeGirl
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                                              • Feb 2005
                                              • 1516

                                              #122
                                              I think that paying admission buys you the nudity... but when you are willing to pay more for a private "dance", there should be "more".

                                              One year, my sweetheart and I celebrated an anti-Valentine's day by going to a strip club where he bought me my first ever lap dance. Well... for my cash, I was hoping for more than I got! I think that if you're going to pay for extra attention, you should be allowed to have more priviliges -- like having their grinding dance be so hot that it makes you cum in your pants.

                                              I would have loved to cum in my panties from her gyrating body -- but that wasn't the service she was selling. Because I didn't really get anything "extra" from the experience, I kinda thought it was a waste of my cash!

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                                              • boneprone
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                                                #123
                                                I mean look how satisified my boyz look after coming out of Cheetahs with their pants soiled...

                                                Look at that smile..

                                                Rage's hand is covering his stain in his pants.

                                                But thats the beauty of swimshorts!



                                                How can something so fun, be ohhh so wrong??

                                                FYI, if you want to know which kind of swimshorts feel best for that Vegas Lapdance Grind, come see me in Vegas..

                                                Ill be your shopping consultant.

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                                                • nastyboy1
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                                                  • Sep 2004
                                                  • 257

                                                  #124
                                                  Originally posted by MaskTVMaura
                                                  Well, you're definitely NOT a psychic, toddler!

                                                  I'm 28 year old fit woman -- girl-next-door look, and I use condoms EVERY TIME I HAVE SEX with anybody who IS NOT my primary partner. Only idiots who fuck around without using protection get STDs... maybe YOU could tell us about that! Oh wait.. you're probably the type of guy who's too afraid to even get tested for STD's (and yet probably also complains about wearing condoms... LOL)

                                                  Hmmm... and you are NOT a horny sexual creature who likes to fuck new people every once in a while? So... how many sexual partners have you had in your lifetime... just 1? That would totally explain why you're so frustrated when you see someone like me who gets everything I want in bed without burning in hell for it or contracting any easily avoidable STDs.

                                                  I'd wish you a nice life... but it seems that you'd much rather be miserable and unfulfilled!

                                                  I like you A little blunt but honest. If you plan on being out at Internext, Brandi and I would like to buy you a drink..or 5
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                                                  • boneprone
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                                                    #125
                                                    Originally posted by nastyboy1
                                                    I like you A little blunt but honest. If you plan on being out at Internext, Brandi and I would like to buy you a drink..or 5

                                                    pervert.

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                                                    • GlydeGirl
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                                                      • Feb 2005
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                                                      #126
                                                      Originally posted by nastyboy1
                                                      I like you A little blunt but honest. If you plan on being out at Internext, Brandi and I would like to buy you a drink..or 5
                                                      Oooohhhh... thanks for the offer, nastyboy! I'd love to see what you do to live up to that name!

                                                      Unfortunately the boss isn't bringing me to Internext this year! Wah! Something to do with the outrageous costs of attending. I'll keep working on him though... see what I can do to change his mind... LOL!

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                                                      • Funbrunette
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                                                        • May 2002
                                                        • 4834

                                                        #127
                                                        Originally posted by boneprone
                                                        I mean look how satisified my boyz look after coming out of Cheetahs with their pants soiled...

                                                        Look at that smile..

                                                        Rage's hand is covering his stain in his pants.

                                                        But thats the beauty of swimshorts!



                                                        How can something so fun, be ohhh so wrong??

                                                        FYI, if you want to know which kind of swimshorts feel best for that Vegas Lapdance Grind, come see me in Vegas..

                                                        Ill be your shopping consultant.

                                                        BP4L
                                                        BP you rock dude....lol
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                                                        • toddler
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                                                          • Jun 2002
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                                                          #128
                                                          Originally posted by MaskTVMaura
                                                          Well, you're definitely NOT a psychic, toddler!

                                                          I'm 28 year old fit woman -- girl-next-door look, and I use condoms EVERY TIME I HAVE SEX with anybody who IS NOT my primary partner. Only idiots who fuck around without using protection get STDs... maybe YOU could tell us about that! Oh wait.. you're probably the type of guy who's too afraid to even get tested for STD's (and yet probably also complains about wearing condoms... LOL)

                                                          Hmmm... and you are NOT a horny sexual creature who likes to fuck new people every once in a while? So... how many sexual partners have you had in your lifetime... just 1? That would totally explain why you're so frustrated when you see someone like me who gets everything I want in bed without burning in hell for it or contracting any easily avoidable STDs.

                                                          I'd wish you a nice life... but it seems that you'd much rather be miserable and unfulfilled!
                                                          Wrong on all counts. You've made some rather poor assumptions based on my response. I, OTOH, made some rather realistic assumptions based on yours. I'd ask you to post pics to prove you are in fact 'girl next door look', but anyone can post a pic.

                                                          I'm quite happy with my life, and quite content to remain faithful to the woman I love. No whore on a message board will change that.
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                                                          • GlydeGirl
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                                                            • Feb 2005
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                                                            #129
                                                            Originally posted by toddler
                                                            Wrong on all counts. You've made some rather poor assumptions based on my response. I, OTOH, made some rather realistic assumptions based on yours. I'd ask you to post pics to prove you are in fact 'girl next door look', but anyone can post a pic.

                                                            I'm quite happy with my life, and quite content to remain faithful to the woman I love. No whore on a message board will change that.
                                                            Wow... just look at the high regard you have for sexually empowered women! I bet your mommy is SO proud of you! Would you like another bucket of mud to sling at me or would you like to return to that high horse of yours and ride off into the sunset with your better-than-thou morality?
                                                            Last edited by GlydeGirl; 11-02-2005, 12:02 PM.

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                                                            • head_palooza
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                                                              #130
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                                                              • boneprone
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                                                                #131
                                                                Originally posted by Funbrunette
                                                                BP you rock dude....lol

                                                                You let your man hang out with the BP4L in Vegas?

                                                                The last time he had anything to do with the family, he was going to the Spa with my wife..

                                                                That was as far as he handle..

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                                                                • nastyboy1
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                                                                  • Sep 2004
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                                                                  #132
                                                                  Originally posted by boneprone
                                                                  pervert.
                                                                  LOL! Thus the name
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                                                                  • 2HousePlague
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                                                                    • Jul 2004
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                                                                    #133
                                                                    No.

                                                                    There's a delta of about "7" from there
                                                                    tada!

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                                                                    • NyLoS
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                                                                      • Apr 2001
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                                                                      #134
                                                                      going to a stipclub is not cheating, getting a lapdance comes too close, going private (even if its only striptease) is over the line

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                                                                      • Downtime
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                                                                        • May 2004
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                                                                        #135
                                                                        definately not cheating!
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