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Wow, I'm still laughing over some of the replies in this thread...
"cheating" is defined by the people in a relationship. Of course there are other things that make a relationship work, besides fidelity. Things like trust, truthfulness, communication, you know, those other words that define a person's character.
Girls should be soft, and they should smell good. Who doesn't (except for the obvious, which would be gay men) like to be around girls? I've probably been to more strip joints that most of the guys in this thread -- with people from the business and with people I've dated. Do I think it's a big deal? No. Of course I also realize that while some guys may not have it figured out, they are just dollars when a stripper looks at them.
Yes, I know there are strippers that add a little extra in the champagne room, and yes, I know there are strippers that will end up back at the hotel with guys that come into the club.
At the end of the day, in a good relationship, you know what and where the boundaries are, because you've communicated the truth of how you feel about things with your partner, and vice versa. Then you either trust your partner or you don't. And if you don't, there's nothing in your relationship that a stripper can break, since it's already broken.
I don't really understand the swinger lifestyle, more in the fact that it's not something I would choose personally, but I don't condescend to it and I don't judge it. To each his own, and as long as both halves of the relationship are in agreement on the boundaries, then hey, it's no one else's business if you ask me.
There's a reason why Baskin Robbins has 31 flavors...
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