can two very different people make a good long term relationship?

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  • quiet
    we'll miss you our friend. RIP
    • Sep 2001
    • 25115

    #1

    can two very different people make a good long term relationship?

    i've really only gone out with girls very similar to myself in terms of world view, interests and sense of humor. do you think a long term relationship is possible with someone *very* different than yourself?
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    • Aug 2004
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    #2
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    • jukeboxfrank
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      • Apr 2004
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      #3
      NO the more like yourself the better off you will be.


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      • {fusion}
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        • Sep 2003
        • 1650

        #4
        dont think long term until you got to know each other.

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        • Rob
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          • Nov 2003
          • 13310

          #5
          Opposites do attract.

          The girls I've had long term relationships were exact opposite of me. The ones I had a lot in common with were the ones that I didn't get a long with.

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          • C_U_Next_Tuesday
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            • Oct 2002
            • 10581

            #6
            My hubby and I are very opposite..his weaknesses are my strengths and vice versa...10 years in January

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            • longbrick
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              • Aug 2004
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              #7
              yes

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              • {fusion}
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                • Sep 2003
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                #8
                Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
                My hubby and I are very opposite..his weaknesses are my strengths and vice versa...10 years in January
                you only get 10 years for a life sentance :p

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                • polish_aristocrat
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                  • Jul 2002
                  • 40377

                  #9
                  Originally posted by quiet
                  i've really only gone out with girls very similar to myself in terms of world view, interests and sense of humor. do you think a long term relationship is possible with someone *very* different than yourself?
                  How is she different than you? You should reveal a little more I think....
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                  • beemk
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                    • Jan 2002
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                    #10
                    if you have to even question it, long term should be out of the question.
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                    • Jer
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                      • Feb 2001
                      • 10601

                      #11
                      My wife and I are very similiar in some terms and totally different in others. We've been together* for 7 years.

                      * long distance relationship for over 5 years

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                      • kristydoll
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                        • Oct 2002
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                        #12
                        People who are opposites in many areas can usually get along really well as long as they share the same views on the bigger things in life (morals/family values, etc).
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                        • SmutGiant
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                          • Oct 2003
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                          #13
                          My ex g/f and I had completely opposite views on everything... we fought constantly. The only thing that kept that relationship dragging on was the sex. We both knew exactly what to do to please each other in the sac

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                          • SmutGiant
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                            • Oct 2003
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                            #14
                            Originally posted by kristydoll
                            share the same views on the bigger things in life (morals/family values, etc).
                            exactly.

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                            • ztik
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                              • Aug 2001
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                              #15
                              Ive lived with the same girl for 3 years. We are very very different.
                              .

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                              • PrincessWannaLaya
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                                • Oct 2004
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                                #16
                                Originally posted by kristydoll
                                People who are opposites in many areas can usually get along really well as long as they share the same views on the bigger things in life (morals/family values, etc).

                                Very well said ... i agree totally
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                                • WiredGuy
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                                  • Aug 2002
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                                  #17
                                  I like to think its possible.
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                                  • The Other Steve
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                                    • Dec 2001
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                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
                                    My hubby and I are very opposite..his weaknesses are my strengths and vice versa...10 years in January
                                    Same here
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                                    • okny
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                                      • Aug 2002
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                                      #19
                                      If the sex is good then everything else goes out the window.
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                                      • detoxed
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                                        • Jan 2003
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                                        #20
                                        depends how hot they are and how rich they are. lack of money and lack of sex brings out the bad.... keep those in check and it'll be ok

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                                        • Sosa
                                          In Tushy Land
                                          • Oct 2002
                                          • 40149

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by ztik
                                          Ive lived with the same girl for 3 years. We are very very different.

                                          Well you are weird and everything

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                                          • Dagwolf
                                            President of Canada
                                            • Sep 2003
                                            • 23141

                                            #22
                                            That's a really hard question to answer.

                                            Ask the guys who married women from overseas during any war; they could probably tell you better. I'm sure their wives were VERY different when they first met.
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                                            • CET
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                                              • Jul 2003
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                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by quiet
                                              i've really only gone out with girls very similar to myself in terms of world view, interests and sense of humor. do you think a long term relationship is possible with someone *very* different than yourself?
                                              It depends on whether or not your your differences are complimentary or not and how willing each of you are to listen and learn from each other.
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                                              • CET
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                                                • Jul 2003
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                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by Jer
                                                My wife and I are very similiar in some terms and totally different in others. We've been together* for 7 years.

                                                * long distance relationship for over 5 years
                                                Wow, this is the first time I've ever heard of a long distance relationship lasting.
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                                                • CET
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                                                  • Jul 2003
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                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by kristydoll
                                                  People who are opposites in many areas can usually get along really well as long as they share the same views on the bigger things in life (morals/family values, etc).
                                                  *applaudes*
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                                                  • DatingGold
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                                                    • Feb 2003
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                                                    #26
                                                    no
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                                                    • wdsguy
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                                                      • Dec 2002
                                                      • 19568

                                                      #27
                                                      Don't get me wrong. Your significant other needs to be alil different in order for you both to compliment each other in various areas. However if you are saying that 2 ppl are drastically different, I don't think that would work for a long-term relationship as you need some kind of commonalities for a long term foundation.

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                                                      • brutus
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                                                        • Mar 2002
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                                                        #28
                                                        Yes - its possible - I have over 7 years experience of it.

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