Originally Posted by JMM

Cmon. Isn't that a little hypocritical????



Here is the problem: You have no idea what happened. How do you know he hasn't cheated in the past? You don't, I don't, and nobody else does either, yet several people felt the need to jump in with the name calling and finger pointing with abosutely NO KNOWLEDGE of what actually happened.



Sometimes it is not so easy. Sometimes, people don't have a lot of options. Divorce takes a long time. Where was she supposed to go? What was she supposed to do? Sometimes, people think the grass is greener, check it out, find out that it is not as green as they thought, and decide to stay. Who knows what went on here, nobody except the 3 parties involved.



It became public because newbreed made it public, which he never should have done in the first place, NEVER. We have heard one side of the story. A side which is most likely not 100% accurate, but again, who knows for sure other than the 3 people involved?



Who bangs your wife and causes them to leave you? Is the wife not allowed to make her own decisions or does Tim possess a magic rod filled with "leave your husband" serum?



You are right, you are one of the fortunate few. I am as well, I've been with my wife for 13 1/2 years and feel the same about her as you do about yours. That is our situation and it is not the same happy picture for all. Again, we don't know what went on before, during, or after the parties involved met. Perhaps things werent so happy at home. NOBODY here knows. And BTW, while I certainly hope that it never happens to me, or to you, it is a bond that can be broken. It happens every day.