Originally posted by Goatse Because if I ever have a daughter, I'll try to get her into college, not the porn business. And if she chooses the latter, I sure as hell won't be there on the sidelines trying to pimp my other daughter.
That is also you. Life often just has other plans that will get in the way of what we want.
I also know donovan shoots primarly softcore, so basicly this is nude modeling and is still a far cry from porn.
I also would never want my daughter in front of the camera doing porn or adult shoots. Yet at same time if that was her choice I would very much want to meet the photographer. As for introducing my other daughter to him/her, well again only if she was allready persuing this on her on accord with or without me.
I do have a good feeling though that she is a NorCal model, and if that is the case. They money is more than alluring with our current economy up here.
Originally posted by jade_dragon Got the response I wanted. Gotta say it is pretty hypocritical though, but of course you knew that. So is it safe to say you do see something morally wrong with the industy? It is ok for another man's child to spread for the camera and you encourage her to do it but your kin are just to pure for it, just to good. Likewise the mother and father should be in direct oposition to it and not support it at all. I suppose the daughter should be mindful to her parents untill of course you want to exploit her then fuck mom and dad, spread that shit, suck a did and make you rich.
Reminds me of guys who treat women like shit, then have a daughter and expect her to be treated like gold, karma is a bitch. Maybe the mother wanted to make sure that her daughter was going to be safe with you, or maybe she was pimping her daughter, who knows. Just wanted to see what you guys would say lol.
You got whatever you decided was going to be said, not what was said.
I'm not saying doing porn is wrong. I'm saying the parents being the agent is wrong.
I'm of the opinion that, generally speaking, parental involvement in the sex life of their child as an adult (by that, I mean the child as an adult) is evidence of something unhealthy. I SERIOUSLY doubt, if you were to break it down to actual cases, that I'd be proven wrong. This includes the instance you cited, Easton. Not slamming you personally on that - but I'm afraid I'd have to assume the worst about the Dad - that there was a voyeuristic thrill involved on his part.
Jade - you obviously have a different opinion, which is fine. But there's really no reason for you to be as hostile and uncivil about expressing it as you were.
My daughter can make whatever decisions she wants regarding sex when she's an adult. I'll always love her, I'll always be her Dad. One thing I WON'T be doing, however - is watching.
Originally posted by jade_dragon Why is this such a big deal. Funny you guys all shoot or deal in porn but then are suprised when someone is not all "weird" about it. So do you want her mom to put her foot down and forbid the girl to do it. Think her mom has never had sex or been seen naked? Think this girl is a snow driven virgin? Some people are just realistic with the way the world works and what actually matters in life. Maybe mom was a model/star at some point in her life
would you be willing to do the same thing with your own daughter?
families don't have to be super models to sell... take the Olsen twins. They're nothing much to look at, but guys go nuts at the thought of twin sisters.
So if you have 2 honestly real sisters posing together, you've got gold... whether hot or just average.
I find myself recalling a Howard Stern show where he was interviewing a porn star and they called her mom and step dad who were very proud of the fact that they watched their daughters videos and got off on them.
I think all of this is more an issue of personal taste and personal boundaries. If i was an 18 year old girl, I would certainly not consider it a health thing to do for my mom to pimp me out. But thats just me.
If the mum was pimping them out then thats wrong, and thats how it has been portrayed. However, for all we know, the two girls at home could have said to their mum that they wanted to do nude modelling so the mum came along to look after them. She then set it so that they went to Donovan as he has a good reputation in the area?
"I try to make a habit of bouncing my eyes up to the face of a beautiful woman, and often repeat “not mine” in my head or even verbally. She’s not mine. God has her set aside. She’s not mine. She’s His little girl, and she needs me to fight for her by keeping my eyes where they should be."
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