Originally Posted by WEGRuth

a day at the beauty spa.. salon.. that kind of thing.. pamper her to death and take her for a romantic dinner afterwards followed by maybe a horse/carriage ride or something like that?

now that'd be a sweet romantic birthday

Or.. does she have anything she's always wanted to DO.. like sky-diving, bungee jumping, anything that's one of those 'I'd really like to but it's ... too expensive, don't have the time to arrange it.. etc' kinda things then that shows you've put extra thought into her gift as well rather than just going and spending $550 on some nice bauble somewhere

Good luck, hope she likes whatever you do for her, and kudos to you for making an effort!!