The way this girl treats you is what you want or you wouldn't be with her... period
You may just not realise it, but it's true.
In other relationships you've had .. have you experienced the same type of treatment from other girls?
The one you have to look at here is you, and what you do and how you act.
You can change nothing about her, she will stay the same no matter what you do.. but you on the other hand.. well you can do something about how you act and what you're willing to accept and not accept.
Don't let infactuation lead you around by the balls, use your head and think about what you're letting happen here
Originally posted by SpikeHeel see! think about it man! the guy knows that the girl has a boyfriend! what will be the reason why she sent your girlfriend flowers? come on! this sounds bad! if the're just really friends,he'll understand why they need to avoid each other!
Exactly!! If he cared for her as a "friend" he wouldn't put the both of you through this!
you don't have to tell your girlfrriend what to do! she's supposed to know that! if not,she's immature! im sorry but i have to say it man! come on! you're being insulted by her! if i were you,let them go! don't hook yoursellf to her too much!
why do people waste so much time living a miserable life??
I'll tell you why.. because they think they have plenty of time to become sure of themselves and get what they want out of life.
I'm no different.. it took me a long time to get where I am and into a situation where I am in control of what happens to me.
I just wish it hadn't taken so long.. I wasted a lot of my life dicking around when I could have been happy, or happier
I think if younger people were more aware of their mortality, they might live their lives differently... you don't have to be old to have your life taken away .. and you only get one chance at life.. so why not be as happy as you can be?
Originally posted by graphicsbytia why do people waste so much time living a miserable life??
I'll tell you why.. because they think they have plenty of time to become sure of themselves and get what they want out of life.
I'm no different.. it took me a long time to get where I am and into a situation where I am in control of what happens to me.
I just wish it hadn't taken so long.. I wasted a lot of my life dicking around when I could have been happy, or happier
I think if younger people were more aware of their mortality, they might live their lives differently... you don't have to be old to have your life taken away .. and you only get one chance at life.. so why not be as happy as you can be?
it only makes sense to me
It totally makes sense what you wrote. Your a very smart woman. Reading what you wrote almost made me cry! JewCash you should listen to her, she's there man.
Originally posted by ArikaAmes It totally makes sense what you wrote. Your a very smart woman. Reading what you wrote almost made me cry! JewCash you should listen to her, she's there man.
thanks Arika,
I can only hope I've learned something in the years I've been on this earth, looking into yourself for truths is about the hardest thing in the world to do.. but dang.. it's worth it in the end
I know I are getting kind of deep here but that is okay
It is very worth it and very rewarding to know in the end when you do realize everything and are past everything that you made it through it. It's nice to not have to worry and/or hold on anymore.
Originally posted by jewcash Its Ice Cold in here...come on already..i need some real advice on how to really get through to her without pissing her off...
move on jewcash! you deserve someone else! more better than her! you're too good!
Age old philosphy I found that works. If you think something is happening then something is prolly happening. She gets mad because you our worried that she still talks to the person she had sex with when your relationship was put on pause? If she was the girl of your dreams she would relate to your concerns and put them at ease instead of getting mad at you. Don't ever settle for less then you deserve which it sounds to me what is exactly happening.
Originally posted by irishfury Age old philosphy I found that works. If you think something is happening then something is prolly happening. She gets mad because you our worried that she still talks to the person she had sex with when your relationship was put on pause? If she was the girl of your dreams she would relate to your concerns and put them at ease instead of getting mad at you. Don't ever settle for less then you deserve which it sounds to me what is exactly happening.
very true
looks like we lost jewcash.. hope he's not getting raked over the coals
go straight to the point.. there's no way you can avoid the fight because for sure she will tell you fuckin' reasons why he have to get in touch with that guy. and will make you believe that she's not doin' anything wrong.. dont be that harsh though coz still, she's a girl.
Originally posted by jewcash irish your soo right...i wish she would just ease my concerns totally
I've been right where you our right now before. I spent three years with my last girl. There would be concerns and when confronted I was berated. That's not what I dedicated three years of my life for. I held her in highest regards I expect at least respect. We moved seprate ways and now she despises me for moving on. Though I am happy and would do it again. It has to be 100% both ways otherwise it will never work....If she doesn't ease your concerns I would move on that's just me though.
Originally posted by graphicsbytia why do people waste so much time living a miserable life??
I'll tell you why.. because they think they have plenty of time to become sure of themselves and get what they want out of life.
I'm no different.. it took me a long time to get where I am and into a situation where I am in control of what happens to me.
I just wish it hadn't taken so long.. I wasted a lot of my life dicking around when I could have been happy, or happier
I think if younger people were more aware of their mortality, they might live their lives differently... you don't have to be old to have your life taken away .. and you only get one chance at life.. so why not be as happy as you can be?
it only makes sense to me
This has nothing to do with age, but with having bad self-esteem... Some people feel like there is no way they can get anyone else and they would much rather be in a miserable relationship, than be alone all by themselves and even compromise their own values and beliefs. Even though they can physically find someone else, in their mind they think that they actually can't and it really holds them down. I am not talking about Jewcash but more about what I have experienced, and I'm 26 btw... Sometimes people can feel so insecure and have such low self-worth that they will put up with anything, because it's better than being alone... But then again I crave drama... but I'm not really like this anymore... this was me around a year ago...
Originally posted by jewcash i thought of that...but why? why get back at them...i really do wish he would find a nice girlfriend and get the fuck out of her life
Originally posted by phogirl69 This has nothing to do with age, but with having bad self-esteem... Some people feel like there is no way they can get anyone else and they would much rather be in a miserable relationship, than be alone all by themselves and even compromise their own values and beliefs. Even though they can physically find someone else, in their mind they think that they actually can't and it really holds them down. I am not talking about Jewcash but more about what I have experienced, and I'm 26 btw... Sometimes people can feel so insecure and have such low self-worth that they will put up with anything, because it's better than being alone... But then again I crave drama... but I'm not really like this anymore... this was me around a year ago...
Originally posted by jewcash what if in your heart this girl is the one for you...and all she wants is for me to stop asking questions about the guy and not stress about her having guy friends...and everything will be fine...and we wont fight about it..What if this girl is really the girl of your dreams
the one thing i can say is...she is a stubborn girl...she will never do anything she doesnt want to do...if i say it bothers me and i want reassurance..she wont do it she has to want to do it
Originally posted by jewcash the one thing i can say is...she is a stubborn girl...she will never do anything she doesnt want to do...if i say it bothers me and i want reassurance..she wont do it she has to want to do it
or maybe she would realize that i am not the only one that shares these views...it is hard to be in a situation like this...it feels good to air it out though...actually it felt really good
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