Both in most cases are temporary. People fall in and out of the deepest and most fullfilling love everyday. Very few people end up with their first loves and those that do, are generally looking at a shell of the love and person they fell in love with. Most are fighting over money and live a shitty existance, with a pinch of fullfillment mixed in every once in a while.
But if you have a huge sum of cash, there's only so many things you can buy to make you happy. It is an extremely hollow existance that is totally unfulfilling. After you buy something to fill up that hole, it comes right back in. Though there is a huge amount to be said for having financial security and not having to worry about carving out an existance.
I can say for certain that the feeling from having that love is much better than any monetary amount you could make. It is much more satisfying than making or having a huge dollar amount. It feels amazing inside.
I know this has nothing to do with the poll, but it is more important to enjoy what you got, then living with the idea that everything will be great once you get over the hill. All that being said, right now I'd take the money
