but why can't a person learn what is interesting about what their kids do instead of being bored? when my son was in his earliest teens, all parents hated video games, where all kids loved them. i became the ONLY parent who not only was interested, but i learned to play them. once i understood them, i wasn't bored.
kids are observant. they know if you're bored or hate what they like. they won't say anything, but they will feel that their choices are hateful or boring.
my son chose half the movies we went to together, and half the resturants. and i learned what made him interested in what he liked. now he's older than half the people on this board, but my son, my fiance and i get together every week to watch a movie or fly kites or hang out
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Originally Posted by simple simon
DO NOT FUCK UP your relationships with your kids. Regardless if you hate or dislike what she wants to do, or if it bores you out of your mind, suck it up and be thankful for every damn second you have together with your kids |