I'm begging.

Why don't you post your skills on the board.

Most of the people here can always use extra help

Are you serious?

Have any kids? I have three...one has a dead dad and the other two have a deadbeat dad. I can't really afford my house anymore since I separated from my husband, so I'm packing to move back in with my mom. I probably could go get a job where my pay rate was steady, BUT after paying day care for three kids, I'd be lucky to come home with ten bucks. If my dad wasn't bringing pizzas over for dinner and visiting the kids, I would be feeding them spaghetti....for the third time this week....because it's cheap.

So I'm sure you understand why this post made me want to slap the shit out of you. Ask for a job, ask for advice, ask for a hand UP...but asking for a hand out when there are people WAY worse off than you is tacky. I don't even ask for handouts, because even though I've got WAY more issues than you, there are people with WAY more issues than me, too.

Man, have some dignity, ask for a job and not for charity... chase is damn right

You seem to have plenty of time to post, since you have over 4000 posts since 2004. Seems like you've been too busy posting to get a job. At least I had a job, and I'm still trying to get another job. Besides it's not my fault you got pregnant from 2 different guys and had 3 kids. Your making it sound like it's not your fault. There's such thing as protection. Also at least you have your mom to fall back on, some people don't have that luxury. At least your kids are eating. I haven't had any food in my house in 3 months. As for issues, yeah you have more issues, but you made those issues for yourself. And yes, there are people alot worse off then me. I never said that. So before you go around thinking of slapping the shit out of people, make sure that your issues are as big as you think they are.

I've actually asked for work before, but alot of people don't want to contract out. Especially since I don't really have any special skills that can be used on here for work. I used to do garbage crap work that people sent me, but other then that, that was it.

What a great reply! Cheers to that.

what kind of things can you do? tried elance.com?

You are a tool. Did you even read what I said before you got your ruffled panties in a bunch?

I do work..for ME. Trying to make me sound lazy won't cut it..people around here will tell ya-I work long and hard. Unlike you, I realize that networking with other people, not begging them for charity, builds my reputation and will help me in any future endeavors. I've learned more from gfy and the people I've met here than I ever would have if I had only bothered to post to beg for help from people who don't even know me. Don't be jealous of my postcount, because I have intelligent, thoughtful posts, and people like to read what I have to say. You too, can be a valued member of the community, if you'd just remove your head from your ass and contribute, and learn and listen.

I don't recall blaming my children on you. But you really look like an ass trying to make me sound like an irresponsible slut. In case you missed it the first time, my oldest child's father DIED. My younger two children's father, (my HUSBAND..generally people who love each other enough to marry do want children together), and I are split up, and he hasn't helped in three months-if he WAS supporting half of our children's expenses, I wouldn't need to sell my house. It's not my fault neither of them are helping; but I am still here filling in the gaps, aren't I? I'm not on welfare, and I'm not begging on GFY. I'm working all night while they sleep, rebulding what I let go when I was ill, so I can take care of them. They are eating, because I bust my ass...no other reason. If you aren't eating, and yet you still have internet, well, guess you made your choice, so don't bitch about having no food.

There are tons of people with less than me, and if you'd bothered to read what I said, you'd see that I said that. I wasn't complaining. I love my kids..wouldn't trade them for anything. And I'm sad about selling my house, but my mom needs me-it's less of me falling back on her than it is a mutually beneficial situation. Some things suck in my life..but some things suck in everyone's life. I'm a big girl; I can take the bad with the good, and I know I have a lot more good and a lot less bad than a lot of other people..

You obviously missed my entire point-which was that there is always someone with less than you, and less options than you. You are a single person, I presume, with no one but yourself to worry about. So stop whining, get up off your ass, be glad you don't have to arrange for childcare, and find a job, or start building your online adult biz, if you even have one. I don't complain about my situation...I picked myself up, and got to work to fix it.

Yes, I made my issues. So did you.....you should have shaved your face. Difference is, I am handling my OWN issues, and in spite of you trying to make me look like I am displacing blame, YOU are the one looking for a handout..not me.

way to indear yourself to the board.....

interesting thread..

I don't believe this.

I'm almost always looking for help. All I require is that the person be an asset, not a liability. Do you know how many people actually end up working for me? Zero. Do you know why? They flake and stop doing the work or just stop responding to me. Its always the same bull shit excuse to. "Oh, I had to do this." "My computer had trouble."

I was going to ask what sort of skills you had, but after reading your reply to chase I already know that you're not someone I want to be working with.

are you female?

Id fire you too if you hsad peach fuzz.

That's bad. Search for a new job

its it that hard find reliable person in here ?

good reply chase, people who look for handouts are worthless in my book

McDonalds is very strict about facial hair, I'm sure you were warned

There's a contest on the board.. best design wins $250.
Spend the next 24 hrs making the 5 best you possibly can...enough free WYSIWYG editors for download.

U obviously have enought money to have an internet connection or pay some time at an internet cafe.....buy some food instead of posting jackass

HAHAHAHAHAA

well deserved for even making this thread.

go get a job you lazy piece of shit, everyone wants shit for free these days, if you are a fucking idiot then you belong at mcdonalds, get off your fucking ass and work at fast food, they will hire you on the spot, lazy ass mother fucker, you could always rent your asshole out.

LOSER.

How old are you? Why do you have "peach fuzz"?

God, what a useless, incompetent idiot.

What a shame society's full of people like you. Actually, I'm surprised society as such is still 'running' despite the loads of clutter it has.

Yup,
1st get a life
2nd get a job
3rd stop been such a little baby

Chase great post

Give me one good reason to send you money instead of the Children's Wish Foundation. A wish-granting organization dedicated to fulfilling a favorite wish for children afflicted with a high risk, life-threatening illness. And I might send you something.

mad respect for chase. as for the other guy, if you can't do online work for someone here i suggest you go out and look for a real fuckin job. lazy fuckin bum asking for handouts i hate that shit. you aren't disabled get off your fat ass and do something.

Pizza hut is always looking for delivery drivers...

get off your lazy ass and go get a job you fucking loser.

If you asked nicely we would of hired you for something.

Hmm... a cheap and uneducated shot at some free bucks...

If you're not a semi-successful online entrepreneur, get off of your dead ass and onto your dyin' feet and look for work..!!

Getting fired because of your 'peach fuzz' says that you ignore company policy..

I doubt that anyone here will fall for your lazy ass attempt to get party money... If they do, they deserve the money loss...

Anyone can find work if they look... Your situation isn't a hardship.. it's a display of laziness.. and it hurts those who ARE in need of a little help...

If your post is some joke (looking at your post count), then it's my bad...
If your serious.. then my final statement is... You can't be serious!!!!!!!!!!

Everyone has tough times once in a while.. You just find the best way to deal with it and keep going. Begging around here won't get you a penny.

Like it was said above, there is work out there for everyone. Stop being lazy and go find it.

Man, if you had come on here and said "I just lot my job, need to eat and make rent, hire me! All I can do is type, surf the net, and edit simple webpages" ... I bet you would have gotten some work. You'd be surprised what people on here will pay you to do.

I have actually done it in the past, and was able to make enough money to survive until times got better.

Instead you sunk yourself so quick that it's highly unlikely anyone is going to hire you (let alone give you a handout).

Man ... bummer shit right here.

-Phil

Go Chase!! You keep 'em straight girly!

You know what. My money is tight right now as well. So I am parking the truck more than normal, not renting dvd's and not eating out. Try some of these. they will save you a ton. Oh, and try picking up the paper and getting a job.

bad to hear that. sorry, dude, I can't lend you some bucks. hope you find another job soon.

Right on the money!!!

That's two more skills than most of the people on this board

of fuck

typo should have been

Oh fuck I'm still laughing

3 words of advice for you : Get A JOB

Now that's a good one

no shit!

I heard some driver's make 20.00 an hour.

Chase,

Hun, sorry to hear about Dad #1, Dad #2 must be super weak!
Your a well liked person and a hard worker, you love your kids,
to move on and remarry, doesn't make you look sleazy in any way
to me and 99.9% of the peeps here! I hope all goes well for you!!
Good think you will also be helping Mom out for a while!

Sorry, you have to leave your house, but there are so many beautiful
houses out there...soon you will be on your feet!!!

Try this one's advice dude..

it must be panhandling day on gfy lol

AWESOME come back *hugs* Think me and ya talked before if im not mistaken, I was in the same boat I have custody of my two kids and it seems like everyday they want more need more and cost more lol A lot of my friends here know last year I did lose everything some was beyond anythign I could of done to stop it and some of it was my fault. But I will take living in the car a garage or the streets so long as my kids are eating and they love me and I love them.

They are everything to me and I feel im everything to them. From hard work and some help from people that I truly can't thank enough I am getting back on my feet, got a new house and the kids are very happy. Getting ready to start a new school year YAHHHH@#$ lol you will be ok you will get things back you are a strong person and a hard worker. Good luck if I can be of any help please let me know

TOM

So, where are you eating?

I don't think you have any friends here

Companies only want contractors who have great skills. ... You know, like nunchuck skills, bowhunting skills, computer hacking skills...

you are not a beggar dude. if you're broke then get a good job and feed yourself.