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Originally Posted by BoyAlley
Homosexuality isn't a "lifestyle" and it's not something that one "chooses".
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Well it would be rather foolish to try to argue that point seeing as how you are obviously a homosexual and i am not.
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I could make a blanket statement about heterosexuality and be just as far off as you may be with that statement..
I paused here while i looked up the actual definition
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Of, relating to, or having a sexual orientation to persons of the same sex.
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I think its possible some people aren't "gay" but still have gay sex or more likely vice versa , that many heterosexuals live a straight life , but are gay inside.
So for some people i think it is a lifestyle, but obviously from the overwhelming opinion of gay people that "you are born gay" for most people its not a decision or a "lifestyle" but something you just "are"
Maybe its just hard for heterosexuals to understand , because we dont feel we were "born" hetero's . At least i dont anyways. I was born to love both men and women , but having sex with only women isn't a lifestyle for me , nor was i born with it.. its how we have babies.. its nature. Jerking off doesn't involve nature , and i wasn't born to jerk off , but i do it.
BTW not knocking gay people in any way , i just think everyone is different..