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Sly · 08-09-2005, 02:29 PM

I think it depends on age and where you're at in your life.

My dad got married last year. They became engaged after knowing each other for just a couple months, probably 4. I thought he was crazy, but after thinking about it he is 43 and would like to have another kid. Maybe it isn't so crazy after all.

I have a friend that has been dating someone for about 4 months. They're already making life plans. Talking about marriage, kids, etc. I think she's crazy. Someone my age should probably have at least 2 years of knowing the other person. Hell just over the past 2 years I see a lot of changes in myself, I'm sure other people see even more. People my age are still learning, growing, etc.

For your age, 1 year I think could be perfectly fine if everything else seems to match up. You probably shouldn't rush into the actual marriage, but I think 12-15 months is enough to warrant a proposal.

Good luck dude.

08-09-2005, 02:29 PM
Sly Let's do some business! Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 31,348	I think it depends on age and where you're at in your life. My dad got married last year. They became engaged after knowing each other for just a couple months, probably 4. I thought he was crazy, but after thinking about it he is 43 and would like to have another kid. Maybe it isn't so crazy after all. I have a friend that has been dating someone for about 4 months. They're already making life plans. Talking about marriage, kids, etc. I think she's crazy. Someone my age should probably have at least 2 years of knowing the other person. Hell just over the past 2 years I see a lot of changes in myself, I'm sure other people see even more. People my age are still learning, growing, etc. For your age, 1 year I think could be perfectly fine if everything else seems to match up. You probably shouldn't rush into the actual marriage, but I think 12-15 months is enough to warrant a proposal. Good luck dude. __________________ Vacares - Web Hosting, Domains, O365, Security & More - Paxum and BTC Accepted Windows VPS now available Great for TSS, Nifty Stats, remote work, virtual assistants, etc. Click here for more details.