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i am so fucking done with relationships

07-26-2005, 11:37 PM

was seeing a girl for a couple of months. was going very good, then my mom dies, so i have to shift gears and move back home to take care of my dad for awhile. she is basically pissed off about this (doesn't come out and say it, but it's obvious). now she doesn't want to see me anymore, unless i move back to Whistler/Vancouver area asap. ah, fuck it.

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07-26-2005, 11:39 PM

One thing I have learned about relationships. Both sides have to be very understanding a supportive no matter what.

She should be supportive and understand what you and your family is going through and what you have to do for your family.
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07-26-2005, 11:39 PM

You don't need that kind of shit in your life. If someone can't figure out that the death of a parent and subsequent need to care for the remaining parent trumps her need to feel special, then well you have to wonder of what quality she is anyway.

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07-26-2005, 11:39 PM

wow...talk about being understanding....
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07-26-2005, 11:46 PM

I'm very sorry to hear about your mom, quite. May she rest in peace.

As for the girl, if she can't understand your father's need for his kids to be close to him and the responsability you feel towards your family in their time of need, then she needs to be alone until she realizes that the world doesn't revolve around her.
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07-26-2005, 11:47 PM

Sorry to hear about your mom Quiet.

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07-26-2005, 11:48 PM

Family first man. I'm sorry she's being a bitch about it, but a death like that would impact me for months. If she can't deal with it, then toss her aside, be there for yourself and your dad. Women come and go but family is forever...

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07-26-2005, 11:49 PM

fuck the hoe, many hoes out there, many more to come and many more to lose..
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07-26-2005, 11:49 PM

Quiet, I'm sorry for your loss. A man that I truly respect once told me that we don't need these types of people in our lives. The world is full of selfish people, unforuntately you became involved with one.

Stay strong and hang in there, I know this is a difficult time for you.
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07-26-2005, 11:49 PM

sorry to hear that quiet.

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07-26-2005, 11:50 PM

Originally posted by WiredGuy

Family first man. I'm sorry she's being a bitch about it, but a death like that would impact me for months. If she can't deal with it, then toss her aside, be there for yourself and your dad. Women come and go but family is forever...

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I agree with everyone here. I can't believe a woman would act like that. Maybe she just misses you so much she can't handle it. Regardless, you shouldn't put up with that. Very sorry to hear about your mom.

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07-26-2005, 11:51 PM

you got cash, move her out there with you if you like her so much... thats what a pimp would do

edit: all bitches are shitty like that, wether its family or work, they want all the attention no matter what. its in thier 'jeans' heh

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07-26-2005, 11:51 PM

there is never anything wrong with being single, the few times when i am i fully enjoy it, feels like a giant weight off your shoulders.

also allows you to have some time and step back and look at what you are really looking for in a woman.

anyone who can not understand a family death is not worth your time, meeting half decent women is hard, but there are some out there, sounds like a cliche but have faith and the one who is best for you is coming along.

of course life is weird in that it always comes around when you least expect it. stay open and casual, i love women, just take some for what they are, there is no need to fall in love if you are not ready.

also sorry for your death.
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07-26-2005, 11:53 PM

Originally posted by p1mpdogg

you got cash, move her out there with you if you like her so much... thats what a pimp would do

no a pimp would have her paying her own way out,

a pimp doesnt spend a dime on his hoes, he collects all of THEIR money.

the word "pimp" has been mixed these days because you have a bunch of 35 yo fat rich men who think it is cool to pick up 18 yo's and blow cash on them.

no no, you are not a pimp when you are being used, get it straight.

pimp = hoes spending or giving the money
desperate = you spending the money.
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07-26-2005, 11:56 PM

Originally posted by MetaMan

no a pimp would have her paying her own way out,

a pimp doesnt spend a dime on his hoes, he collects all of THEIR money.

the word "pimp" has been mixed these days because you have a bunch of 35 yo fat rich men who think it is cool to pick up 18 yo's and blow cash on them.

no no, you are not a pimp when you are being used, get it straight.

pimp = hoes spending or giving the money
desperate = you spending the money.

i didnt mean pimp literally jees relax

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07-26-2005, 11:57 PM

Sorry to hear that quiet!
Leave her! if she cares for you she gonna support you or at least comfort you, right?
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07-26-2005, 11:58 PM

hate to say it, but i agree with pimpdog, if she doesnt agree to that, boot her selfish ass to the curb. your family is more important than her. sorry to hear about your loss.

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07-26-2005, 11:58 PM

Originally posted by p1mpdogg

i didnt mean pimp literally jees relax

lol who says i wasnt.
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07-26-2005, 11:58 PM

agree. if she loves you she'll understand.. i think she's being selfish..
anyway, i'm sorry to hear about your mother...

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07-26-2005, 11:59 PM

Originally posted by Headless

One thing I have learned about relationships. Both sides have to be very understanding a supportive no matter what.

She should be supportive and understand what you and your family is going through and what you have to do for your family.

Totally agree.............

If she's not then yo need to kich that bitch to the curb period.
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07-27-2005, 12:01 AM

Sorry to hear that Quiet, I would take some time for yourself and put the relationship on hold.

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07-27-2005, 12:02 AM

Originally posted by WiredGuy

Family first man. I'm sorry she's being a bitch about it, but a death like that would impact me for months. If she can't deal with it, then toss her aside, be there for yourself and your dad. Women come and go but family is forever...

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for sure bro. agreed with everyone else as well. it's kind of a bad time for this type of thing to go down, but whatever. just pisses me off, and makes me shake my head at someone you think you know. such is life.

i'm pouring myself a rum and coke.

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07-27-2005, 12:04 AM

you guys are stupid

quiet obviously cares for the ho or he wouldnt have posted here. you cant just kick a girl to the curb you like. an antisocial dude like queit i imagine is very hard to get close too, and im sure he doesnt let girls get close until he trusts them. so this one got through his thick skin, and is now pulling this shit.

am i right or am i right quiet?

dont kick her to the curb, not that you would even if you could for the reasons mentioned above.

there are better ways to handle this than taking these morons suggestions of kicking her to the curb

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07-27-2005, 12:05 AM

Sorry to hear about your Mom. Family first bro.

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07-27-2005, 12:09 AM

true pimp, im not easy to get close to. i believe you are likely the same way. however, i also believe i'm done with this girl. my dad and i have a killer relationship, he helped me through all my po' student years, did all kinds of shit for me back when i was fucked. i did like her, a lot, but fuck this shit. And i only posted this cause we didn't have phonesex tonight

hell, i bought my dad a Porsche this spring. we are doing a road trip leaving this friday (long weekend in Canada, not sure about the States).

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07-27-2005, 12:12 AM

Originally posted by quiet

true pimp, im not easy to get close to. i believe you are likely the same way. however, i also believe i'm done with this girl. my dad and i have a killer relationship, he helped me through all my po' student years, did all kinds of shit for me back when i was fucked. i did like her, a lot, but fuck this shit. And i only posted this cause we didn't have phonesex tonight

hell, i bought my dad a Porsche this spring. we are doing a road trip leaving this friday (long weekend in Canada, not sure about the States).

yea im the same way.. and you are lucky to have a dad like you have, i cant relate to that honestly.... but family def comes first

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07-27-2005, 12:13 AM

Originally posted by p1mpdogg

you guys are stupid

quiet obviously cares for the ho or he wouldnt have posted here. you cant just kick a girl to the curb you like. an antisocial dude like queit i imagine is very hard to get close too, and im sure he doesnt let girls get close until he trusts them. so this one got through his thick skin, and is now pulling this shit.

am i right or am i right quiet?

dont kick her to the curb, not that you would even if you could for the reasons mentioned above.

there are better ways to handle this than taking these morons suggestions of kicking her to the curb

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07-27-2005, 12:14 AM

Originally posted by Mutt

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07-27-2005, 12:14 AM

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07-27-2005, 12:16 AM

Originally posted by Mutt

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07-27-2005, 12:34 AM

It's good that it came out now instead of after 2-3 years. Easier to part ways
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07-27-2005, 12:42 AM

Originally posted by quiet

for sure bro. agreed with everyone else as well. it's kind of a bad time for this type of thing to go down, but whatever. just pisses me off, and makes me shake my head at someone you think you know. such is life.

i'm pouring myself a rum and coke.

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07-27-2005, 12:44 AM

Sorry to hear about your mom man....don't know if you posted about it before and I just missed it or what but my condolences.

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07-27-2005, 01:03 AM

I sooo understand how bad this must suck... My brothers ex wife is going through the exact same thing. She was dating this guy and it was getting quite serious. She's really liking him alot etc and then her mom died. She was really sick too so this had taken a while and the whole family was mentally drained.

He had plane tickets to some weekend trip or something he had bought before he knew this was gonna happen. He got all pissed off and offended that she wouldnt' go. Long story short she stayed with him another 6 months or so and now they are broken up cuz she realizes what an insensitive and selfish person he is.

Life is handing you a clue and a big red flag. This of years in the future when you're together and shit suddenly goes down. There's always gonna be tragedys and issues that will need your immediate attention and her support. Last thing you want is to deal with this time and time again. It really does show a very ugly part of her character even though you do like everything else about her.
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07-27-2005, 01:06 AM

well it seems u deserve somebody else

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07-27-2005, 01:08 AM

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07-27-2005, 01:14 AM

ditch her man
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07-27-2005, 01:28 AM

you deserve someone better. someone who will understand you and support you and is willing to set aside her personal desire for you.

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07-27-2005, 04:50 AM

If that is her attitude consider yourself fortunate you found out now before you invested more time in the relationship. I'm sorry for the loss of your Mom and your relationship but you are definitely doing the right thing taking care of your Dad. When the time is right you will find the right girl and you will know that she is the ONE.
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07-27-2005, 05:05 AM

At least you found out what a selfish bitch she is before it got too serious.
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07-27-2005, 05:09 AM

If this was the girl that you said likes cocaine, then it was inevitable....Coke whores are only good for one thing and that is for ENTERTAINMENT....If it goes past that, you're fucking yourself.

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07-27-2005, 05:16 AM

Sorry for the loss of your mom. You deserve better than that girl but don't give up on relationship there are a lot of good people out there, Keep your head up.

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07-27-2005, 05:18 AM

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I'm very sorry to hear about your mom, quite. May she rest in peace.

As for the girl, if she can't understand your father's need for his kids to be close to him and the responsability you feel towards your family in their time of need, then she needs to be alone until she realizes that the world doesn't revolve around her.

My thoughts exactly...
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07-27-2005, 05:18 AM

Family First, Get rid of her if she does not understand what your family is going through. It is going to hurt now , but that is not the type of person that you want to spend your life with.
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07-27-2005, 05:18 AM

Sorry to hear about your Moms..forget about the insensitive twat..lots of fish in the sea man

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07-27-2005, 05:18 AM

Being a good son during a parent's time of need, or being an attentive boyfriend.

I would choose the former.

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07-27-2005, 05:23 AM

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I agree with everyone here. I can't believe a woman would act like that.

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I also recall a woman drowning her 3 kids on purpose one by one a year or so ago too.

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07-27-2005, 05:50 AM

Originally posted by quiet

true pimp, im not easy to get close to. i believe you are likely the same way. however, i also believe i'm done with this girl. my dad and i have a killer relationship, he helped me through all my po' student years, did all kinds of shit for me back when i was fucked. i did like her, a lot, but fuck this shit. And i only posted this cause we didn't have phonesex tonight

hell, i bought my dad a Porsche this spring. we are doing a road trip leaving this friday (long weekend in Canada, not sure about the States).

You sound like an awesome guy who deserves way better than that. Karma works both ways and when the right girl finds her way into your life it will be a dream come true!!

This may have come at the worst time but before you dedicated yourself to her for eternity you saw her true colors. Believe me not all women are self obsorbed there is much better out there for you.

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07-27-2005, 05:51 AM

Originally posted by quiet

was seeing a girl for a couple of months. was going very good, then my mom dies, so i have to shift gears and move back home to take care of my dad for awhile. she is basically pissed off about this (doesn't come out and say it, but it's obvious). now she doesn't want to see me anymore, unless i move back to Whistler/Vancouver area asap. ah, fuck it.

quiet,
my deepest condolences go out to you, and your family, for your loss.

As for the female: if she cannot be patient and understanding enough for this, what CAN she handle?
Sounds to me like she is a selfish person that does not take in to consideration others needs.

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07-27-2005, 05:54 AM

Blessings for your Mom Quiet.

I had the same kind of thing happen with a gal I was engaged to when my father died back in the late 80's. I understand what you're going through and its a tough situation.

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