KB - dont know you. but here is my
All the energy that you are puttin out on this issue, is doing nothing but making you more stressed.
Karma is a bitch, and if you feel like you have been wronged - it will come back to get those who have wronged you. In the meantime, while you are stressing they are having cocktails poolside.
If you have been defamed go to the courts, bc I cannot see how the GFY posts are helping matters, always remember all your statements can be held against you if and when you decide to litigate. (even on GFY)
Happy 4th - Cheers!